Written by my husband, Ted:
Today I had father-son time with my oldest, George, who is going into middle school next week. I used our time together not only to have fun at the Mall of America, but also started a tradition with my boys who are going into middle school (and in a few years, high school). I was able to capitalize on this transition as an opportunity to invest in him, and talk about leadership and many other topics.
During lunch I shared (or re-shared) with him:
* Picking quality friends. We become like those we surround ourselves with, for better or for worse
* The power of a growth mindset (Instead of “I can’t”… “I can’t, YET”)
* The value of integrity
* The importance of kindness
* Going first (e.g. saying hi…first; smiling first; encouraging first)
* That his mom and I are always here for him (during good and bad times)
* The power of courage and taking action when you are afraid. Action cures fear.
At one point I teared up during our time (I know…I know…a little sappy), realizing I have the wonderful privilege to father him and his brothers.
Cheers to a great year, George!
Ted Egly is my awesome husband and father to our four cowboys. He loves good books and adventure races. He does Executive Development for Target.