9 In Faith/ Family/ Motherhood

How do you change this world? Love your family.

Most of us want to make an impact on the world.
I’d love for my name to go down in history as someone who changed the world for the better.

Mother Teresa says we can change the world.
How? By loving our family.

We can start the day with a hug and a smile.
One small step at a time, we will raise our sons and daughters to make a positive difference in this world. We can teach our children to love and respect others by modeling it for them.

Loving, God-honoring families have a positive impact on every dimension of society. When kindness is practiced at the kitchen table, it spreads into classrooms, workplaces, neighborhoods, and into our communities. The way we speak, forgive, encourage, and serve at home becomes the way our children treat the world.

Loving, God-honoring families have a positive impact on every dimension in society!

The task we have in front of us can seem overwhelming. I know some days I feel like I’m failing as a mom. Some days are loud, messy, exhausting, and far from the peaceful picture I imagined. But each day I get to start over and try again. And those small “start again” moments matter more than perfection ever could.

One thing that helps me be a better mother is investing in myself.

It’s difficult to pour good things into our children without first filling ourselves. Spending time daily with God – praying, reading your Bible, meditating on Scripture, reading from an inspiring book or study – are ways to fill your soul!

When I start my day with God’s word and prayer (and coffee) – I have the FUEL I need to be a better wife, mom, and leader. God fills MY love tank, and I can pour that love into my husband and children throughout the day.

And when I fall short, which I do, God empowers me to start again.

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Usually the difference we make is very small. Let me share a personal story. One morning, I was rushing, trying to get everyone fed, dressed, and out the door. The kitchen was noisy, someone couldn’t find a shoe, someone else spilled their breakfast, and I felt my frustration rising fast. I was ready to snap… but instead, I paused. I took a breath, walked over, and helped clean up the spill. I told my son that its okay, we all spill stuff.

It didn’t feel like a world-changing moment. It felt ordinary. Small. Almost invisible.

But later that day, I saw my son comfort his brother when he was upset. using the same gentle tone I had used that morning. That’s when it hit me… this is how the world changes. Not in huge, dramatic moments, but in quiet acts of patience and love that get repeated from one moment to another.

So today, love your family.
Be patient one more time.
Offer one more hug.
Speak one more kind word.

Because those small moments are shaping the people who will shape the world

Want to read more? Check out this post on MOTHERHOOD IN THE MESS.

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9 Comments

  • Reply
    Lindsey
    October 3, 2017 at 3:42 am

    Yes, we do the same! Love.

    The help club for moms sounds interesting. I’d love a copy!

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      Kathryn
      October 3, 2017 at 12:25 pm

      Great! Since becoming a mom, they are the best Bible study I’ve seen and done!

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    Deb Weakly
    October 3, 2017 at 4:30 am

    I’m so thanfuk for you Kathryn!!

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    Christina Roberson
    October 3, 2017 at 4:22 pm

    I’d love a copy! Thanks for your inspiration!

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      Kathryn
      October 3, 2017 at 8:07 pm

      Great!

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    Rachel
    October 4, 2017 at 6:13 pm

    Thanks for the reminder of being a change in this world by loving our families first. Sometimes I feel as though I am making not one bit of difference in this world. Thank you for reminding me I am. 🙂

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      Kathryn
      October 4, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      You really are making a difference in this world Rachel! Thanks for your faithfulness to your family Rachel!

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    Landa Lawrence
    October 5, 2017 at 2:33 am

    I’m in a new season of the empty nest but still very much a mom to my young-adult kids. I love the talks we have and how their minds lately are processing more mature things. I need my soul to continually be full so that God shines through in what I say and do.

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      Kathryn
      October 5, 2017 at 2:56 am

      Yes!! Thanks for your comment Landa! I hope that no matter how old my sons get, I can still invest in them!

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