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7 In 2020/ Book Review/ Giveaway

5 Books I Read This Month (And How I Read I Find Time To Read)

Sometimes people ask how or why I read so much.

  1. I LOVE reading! You find time for things you love.
  2. I have books everywhere. One by my bed. An audiobook on my phone. A book by the couch. Another in the kitchen. One in the car.
  3. I take a few minutes to read in the morning. I usually take about 10-20 minutes in the afternoon to read. In the evening, I’d rather read than watch TV. If my kids or husband are watching something, I’ll sit with them on the couch and read next to them, OR, I’ll read for a little while after the kids go to bed.
  4. If I have to wait for my kids at a practice or an appointment, I’ll read.
  5. I read WITH my kids. This is a little challenging with FOUR boys, so I pick a book and read one-on-one, or read SHORT segments with more than one child.
  6. The free HOOPLA or LIBBY app allows me to download excellent books for no cost, so I will listen to books while doing household chores or exercising.
  7. My increase in reading may also be related to the fact that I’m new-ish to Minnesota, so I don’t have as many social commitments, also #MinnesotaWinter! 🤔

Here are the 5 I read this month, as well as one we finally finished after nearly a year.

1. The Ultimate Gift by Jim Stovall

My son George was intrigued by this book and asked me to read it to him. We’d read a chapter each day at breakfast. 

The book is about a young man who is set to inherit a LOT of money if he completes several tasks that will teach him valuable life lessons, like:

  • The Value of Money
  • The Value of Time
  • The Value of Work
  • The Value of Good Friendships, etc.

I’d highly recommend this book if you have any teenagers in your house. It’s easy-to-read and talks about 12 life lessons that will lead to a meaningful life.

Rating 9/10

2. The Algebra of Happiness by Scott Galloway

This book is filled with a hodge podge of the author’s thoughts, ideas, and stories from his life.

My favorite parts of the book were:

  • His reminder to look for the good – it’s all around if you are paying attention.
    • Seeing the Good is a Key to Happiness!
  • His encouragement to invest in another kid who isn’t your own child. 50% of kids will go through a divorce and another percentage of kids don’t have a relationship with one of their parents. Kids truly benefit from another person encouraging them and teaching them something new. I STRONGLY agree with him on this topic. Having another person who wasn’t a parent invest in me, changed the trajectory of MY life!
    • Giving Back is a Key to Happiness!
  • Compound interest – most of us know how it works with money, but we forget how it works with relationships. Small investments made on a regular basis over a long period of time have a huge payout.
    • Good relationships are a key to happiness. 

Rating 7/10

3. The Ride of a Lifetime by Bob Iger

Bob is the CEO of Disney. In this book, he shares stories from his career (before Disney), and how he’s transformed Disney since he began leading the company 15 years ago. He shares life and leadership lessons.

It’s a well-written book with some interesting stories and good lessons, but I was hoping it would be more of a memoir and story of his life.

If you are a business leader, you will enjoy and benefit from this book.

Rating 7/10

Interested in learning about the ‘inner workings’ of Disney? I’d recommend a phenomenal book called: Creating Magic by Lee Cockerell. I LOVED this one and consider it a MUST read.

4. Little women – Louisa May Alcott

I’m not sure why it’s taken me so long to read this classic. I wish I would have read it as a teenager. It’s such an endearing story about four sisters, and I grew up with four sisters!

I watched the new movie recently and fell in love with the story, so I checked out the audiobook from the library. The book was written in the 1800s, so some of the language is a little outdated, but other than that – the story is wonderful.  The new movie is EXCELLENT!

Rating 9/10

5. John Wesley by Janet Benge

Janet Benge is one of my favorite authors. She tells the stories of men and women who’ve done fascinating things with their lives.

I started reading this book with George but he was not engaged. I wouldn’t recommend it for kids.

I’ve heard of John Wesley as a pioneer in church history and wanted to learn more about him. I was UN-pleasantly surprised by his story.

He was raised by an extremely strict father and that became a BIG part of who he was. He lived by RULES. Those ‘rules’ or METHODS became the foundation of the Methodist church. Most of his life was about how much he could DO without really understanding or experiencing the love and grace of God. For better biographies by Janet Benge, I highly recommend Corrie Ten Boom, Gladys Aylward and Amy Carmichael!

Rating 7/10

An awesome book I’ve been reading to the boys for about a YEAR that we FINALLY FINISHED IN FEBRUARY:

Luke

Indescribable by Louie Giglio

I think every family should own a copy of this book! The short devotionals teach something about science and how it connects with God and us. We find each page fascinating. We’ve just purchased, and started reading, the second book in the series.

Rating 10/10

Click here to read my favorite books of 2019!

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2 In 2020/ DIY/ Free stuff/ Peek into our Week/ Raising boys

From Boredom to Box Arcade: How an Empty Weekend Sparked Big Creativity

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Basketball season wrapped up, leaving us with a full weekend and no scheduled plans. I’ll admit—it didn’t take long for me to start feeling a little stir-crazy. With cold weather still lingering, I found myself daydreaming of warmer days and something (anything!) to do.

But my kids? They handled the downtime way better than I did.

After watching a creative YouTube video (linked below), Clark got an idea: Why not build arcade games out of old boxes and things around the house? He got to work right away, and before long, his brothers joined him.

Now our dining room has transformed into a mini arcade workshop. They’re designing games, building them with cardboard and hot glue, and planning to invite neighborhood friends over to play.

What started as a slow weekend turned into a burst of imagination, teamwork, and fun—and I’m here for it.

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Here’s the super cool video that inspired the weekend’s creativity:

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It’s weekends like this that remind me kids don’t need much—just a little time, space, and maybe a cardboard box or two. Sometimes the best memories are made when we don’t have a plan.

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Want more?

Click here to for more FUN SCREEN FREE IDEAS!

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3 In 2020/ Family/ Free stuff/ Raising boys/ Things to do in Minnesota

Don’t Eat Pete!

Here’s a fun and easy game to play with your children or grandchildren.

It’s also an activity I leave out for the babysitter.

What you need:

Any small snacks (cereal, candy, tiny crackers, peanuts, raisins)

1 piece of paper and a writing utensil

To do:

  1. On a sheet of white paper, draw a large grid – nine squares.
  2. Put a number on each square.
  3. Put a small snack on each square.
  4. Have ONE person leave the room.
  5. Have another person choose which square is “Pete.”
  6. Ask the person who left the room to come back. He or she eats one snack at a time. When they grab the snack that is “Pete,” everyone screams:

“DON’T EAT PETE!”

Their turn is over.

Repeat as many times as your kids are interested!

Parenting tip:

Are you having a hard time getting your kids to eat certain foods? Cut it into SMALL pieces and use it on the game board.

You can turn this game into LUNCH!

  1. Cover the game board with a piece of plastic wrap.
  2. Cut up small pieces of a protein of your choice, fruits, and vegetables.
  3. Play!

Interested in more games for kids?

Click here for a WOULD YOU RATHER game!

Click here for many more ideas!

3 In 2020/ DIY/ Food/ Motherhood/ Raising boys/ Recipe

Easiest dinner idea your kids will love

Here’s an easy dinner idea – it’s not original but sometimes it’s nice to have a new idea for dinner!

Mini Pizzas!

I love this option because I just set out the ingredients and my kids MAKE THE DINNER themselves. They are less likely to complain about it because THEY MADE IT!!

Plus, they have so much fun creating their own pizza.

Luke loves LOTS of pepperoni.

Clark likes LOTS of cheese.

George is very precise and careful.

Paul can eat his weight in pizza.

Only 3 Ingredients required:

  1. Individual Naan Bread (or pita bread or bagels)
  2. Pizza sauce
  3. Shredded Mozzarella Cheese

Other optional ingredients:

  • Pepperoni slices,
  • Sliced Mushrooms,
  • Chopped peppers
  • Olives
  • Pesto
  • Jalapeños

Set whatever ingredients your family enjoys onto the table. Allow everyone to create their masterpiece and bake for 5-6 minutes at 350 degrees.

Dinner is DONE! Enjoy!

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3 In 2020/ Family/ Free stuff/ Games/ Motherhood/ Raising boys/ Things to do in Minnesota/ Traveling

Would you Rather?

Here’s a fun game to get your kids talking! My boys love this game and ask me to play when we are having dinner together or driving.

Because this game needs NO SUPPLIES, you can play during dinner, on a walk, or anytime you want to engage with your kids.

Would you rather….

Be Superman or Batman?

Eat Pizza or Hotdogs?

Ride a roller coaster or a water slide?

Go to Target or Walmart?

Laugh or cry?

Jump high or run fast?

Have summer all year or winter all year?

Be really smart or really funny?

Drive a truck or a sports car?

Go back in time or go to the future?

Be able to fly or be invisible?

Have ONE great friend or 20 pretty good friends?

Be in the Mountains or at the Beach?

Take a ride in a speed boat or helicopter?

Go Skydiving or Swim with Sharks?

Build a Sand Castle or Play in the Waves?

Go Skiing or Ride a bike?

Watch a Movie or Read a Book?

Go Rock climbing or Swimming?

Own a Cat or a Dog?

Write a Story or a Draw picture?

Clean the Bathroom or Vacuum the carpet?

Ice Skate or Roller Skate?

Drink Pop or Water?

Play Inside or Outside?

Take a Shower or Bath?

Take a trip to Australia or Italy?

Go Fishing or Make slime?

Play a Video game or Board game?

Have more time or more money?

VOTE WITH YOUR FEET:

If you’d like to play this game with more than one child, call it: VOTE WITH YOUR FEET! Kids have to vote for which one they’d rather do by WALKING to one side of the room! This gets kids moving and allows them to see that they have something in common with another person.

Click here for lots of game ideas for kids!

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1 In 2020/ Book Review

5 books I read in January

Good Grief by Granger E Westburg

A super short, easy-to-read book that I could recommend to every person in this world. Whether you are grieving something simple like canceled plans, or something much larger – like divorce or loss of a loved one – this book is a MUST READ!

Rating: 5/5

Master Your Goals by Zig Ziglar

I’m making a new goal to start each year with a Zig Ziglar book. However, since he’s written over 200 books – I may need to start each MONTH with a Ziglar book. He is absolutely inspiring and the master of motivation and success!

Rating: 5/5

The Sun Does Shine by Anthony Ray Hinton

If you want a fascinating story – check this book out! (I listened to the audiobook in my car.)

The author spent many years on death row for a crime he didn’t commit. After he works through the anger of being wrongfully imprisoned, he realizes they’ve stolen his life but they can‘t steal his joy. He chooses to make a positive difference right there on death row. He brought light and life to a very dark place. He gets to know each prisoner –and their stories filled my heart with compassion and it gave me a different perspective on our prison system.

The book is an excellent example of CHOOSING JOY in ANY situation, as well as the difference that ONE PERSON can make.

Rating: 5/5

Full Circle by Andrea Barber

If you were a Full House fan, or enjoy watching “Fuller House” in Netflix, then you’ll like this book. It’s “Kimmy Gibler’s” autobiography. I like how she takes you behind the scenes of her show and into her life.

She’s shares stories of how she’s gotten through some “lows” in her life – mainly anxiety and an unwanted divorce. I appreciated her insight into what’s helping her through those struggles.

Rating: 4/5

Where’d You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple

I read the book several years ago and after watching the movie, I decided to re-read the book.

There are parts of the movie I liked better (Cate Blanchett portrayed an Oscar-worthy Bernadette!) and there are parts of the book I liked better (so many more details).

It’s an entertaining story of a lady – Bernadette – who is a fabulous architect. Once she has a baby, she stops creating and focuses 100% of her attention to her daughter for the next 15+ years. Instead of finding creative outlets, she starts to become a menace to society. The story is super entertaining.

The lesson I gleaned from the book (and movie) is that we were all born to create. If we aren’t fulfilling our God-given purpose in life – we start to act out in ways that are problematic. We fill legitimate needs in illegitimate ways. 

This would be a great book to take on vacation! And I recommend the movie too! Both are entertaining.

Click here for a review of the books I read in February: Little Women, Give and Take, Your Beautiful Purpose, and The Ride of a Lifetime

Here are my top ten books from 2019!

And my favorite books of 2018!

What are you reading? Leave me a comment!

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0 In 2020/ Family/ Minnesota/ Peek into our Week/ Raising boys/ Things to do in Minnesota

Peek into our winter weeks

The winter of 2019 was so cold we didn’t get to spend a lot of time outside. 2020 has started much more MILD and we’re all happy about that. “Mild” in Minnesota means the temperature is a “warm” 30 degrees.

Here are some fun things we’ve been doing this winter:

Skiing

Luke learned to ski! I signed him up for a 90 minute class, and 6 hours later…he still didn’t want to stop skiing!

George and Clark joined the Ski Club at school. Once a week they go directly from school to the ski hill with their classmates.

I was just there for the hot chocolate! 🙂

Sledding

We found a huge sledding hill near our home!

Shoveling

George and Clark are earning extra money by shoveling for neighbors.

Christmas

Christmas was a fun family day with just the 6 of us. We made pancakes and played lots of games.

A Visit from Family

My sister and her family came to visit from Indiana. We got to go out to dinner, swimming, sledding, and visited Mall of America. This is their second annual trip to Minnesota. They come up and spend the New Year with us – and we spend 4th of July with them in Indiana.

Basketball

George, Clark and Paul are finishing their first season of basketball and they’ve loved it. We were all surprised how much fun this sport it. They’ve enjoyed playing, and the rest of us have enjoyed watching them play

Winter is for watching Movies:

Little Women – A friend invited me to go see this with her. It’s nominated for a bunch of Oscars and now I know why – it’s an INCREDIBLE movie! Watch it!

Where’d you Go, Bernadette? I really enjoyed the book and thought the movie was fantastic! (Get it from Redbox or the library)

Something we have NOT enjoyed this winter: The FLU 🙁

It started with Paul, jumped to Luke, and then to Ted. Thankfully, I only had one rough night! We are all better now!

He had the flu, so I probably shouldn’t be this close…but look at him. You’d hold him too, wouldn’t you?

What have you been up to this winter?

Click here to read my Minnesota Bucket List!

Click here to read How Not to Hate Winter!

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0 In 2020/ Motherhood/ Peek into our Week/ Raising boys

When You Need Your Mom, But You Are the Mom!

Last night I was laying in bed with a high fever. I was waiting for my mom to come and check on me and bring me a cool cloth for my forehead.

And then I remembered…

I AM THE MOM!

I heard little footsteps running around. One of my sons was up past his bedtime. This is one time I was HAPPY about that.

“Come here,” I weakly called to him, “please bring a cool rag for my head.”

A minute later, my son gently laid a wet hand towel across my forehead.

“I love you” he said as he walked out of the room.

He then tripped over a nerf gun.

I smiled as I realized we had switched roles. He was taking care of me, offering a cool rag and “I love you” …and even tripping over a toy in the hallway!

I felt so loved!

I grabbed my phone from the nightstand beside me to take this picture to remember the moment.

My son does these little acts of love for me because I’ve done little acts of love for him. And I learned those things from my mom – who did the same for me. And even if you didn’t have one of those moms that did that for you, it’s never to late to be one!

Keep doing little acts of love, moms!

The care you give, and values you live, will develop in your children as they watch and learn.

They may soon surprise you with their own acts of love! 

By the way – My husband has been down with the Flu, but still got out of bed to give me water and Tylenol. Thank you Ted!

I prayed that night and asked God to heal me.  I woke up this morning feeling SO much better! Thank you God!

1 In Food/ Free stuff/ Motherhood/ Product Recommendations/ Raising boys/ Review

Bonding through cooking & eating together

I’ve been ordering from Hello Fresh for several years.  I’ve tried other subscription meal services, but keep coming back to this one. I usually order 1 box every 4-8 weeks.

You can choose from an assortment of meals each week. There’s a vegetarian option, seafood, pork, chicken and/or steak.

The 3 that I chose for this week were:

  • Chimichurri Steak with a Sweet Potato, Poblano, and Tomato Jumble
  • Balsamic Fig Chicken with Sweet Potatoes and Mixed Greens
  • Shrimp Pasta with a Kick with Garlic Herb Butter and Zucchini
Here’s how it works:

Hello Fresh sends me a box of colorful recipe cards and perfectly portioned ingredients, allowing me to prepare a balanced, delicious meal for my family without having to spend the time planning and shopping as much as I normally would.

 

I love that someone else takes care of all the parts of dinner that I don’t enjoy – especially the DECIDING what to eat! With Hello Fresh, we make and try things we would have never made or tried before.

Here are some reasons why we like Hello Fresh:

#1 :

We get to cook together – spending time side-by-side!

The recipe guide has pictures and instructions that are step-by-step and easy enough for a child to follow. My sons feel great about being able to prepare a delicious meal for the entire family.

#2:

It’s an ADVENTURE!  

A cooking adventure of trying and preparing something new and discussing what we like about each meal, and what we want to cook again. We discover foods and recipes we would have never tried if it weren’t for Hello Fresh.

#3:

We all sit down to eat together!!

This is my favorite part of ordering from Hello Fresh. It’s a well-balanced meal that really encourages sitting down and eating together. Hot dogs and chicken nuggets don’t do that – I warm those up and hand them out.

Cooking these delicious Hello Fresh meals has us sitting down and enjoying a meal TOGETHER!!

Many of us know that everyone benefits when we sit down and eat meals as a family. 

5 Scientifically-Proven Benefits to

Eating Together as a Family:

  1. Family dinners mean better family relationships
  2. Eating together fosters happy, well-adjusted kids
  3. Eating together helps kids do better in school
  4. Eating together reduces stress
  5. Eating together provides better nutrition
Here’s the rundown about how we felt about each meal:

Chimichurri steak – My boys LOVE steak so this was a hit. I didn’t put the chimichurri sauce on their steak, but I loved it on mine. We all enjoyed the sweet potato medley too!

Balsamic Fig Chicken – Chicken is something we eat on a regular basis, so trying this new recipe was fun and it tasted great!

Shrimp Pasta with a Kick was DE-LICOUS!  Clark and I loved the meal, just as shown in the picture – pasta mixed with shrimp and zucchini. The other boys liked all their items separate, not touching. Ted, not much of a pasta eater – just ate the shrimp and zucchini. 

 

My version – not as pretty as the picture, but definitely tasty!

I order from Hello Fresh to add some variety. To save money, I order the smallest meal size and just add my own ingredients to make enough for 6. 

If you’d like to try Hello Fresh, I have a $40 discount for you. 

Click here for a $40 discount off your first order!

You do have to log on to Hello Fresh about once every 6-8 weeks to choose your meals or hit “skip.” If you don’t love it, just cancel! It’s easy!

Thanks for reading and happy cooking!

Would you like some ideas about what to talk about with your kids? Here’s a game we play at dinner called: Would You Rather?

Click here to read My Struggle with Housekeeping!

Here’s my unpacking of a Hello Fresh box:

0 In 2019/ Family/ Minnesota/ Things to do in Minnesota/ Traveling

We toured the US – without leaving our state!

Minnesota is a beautiful place, but I’d like to see what the rest of the country looks like too! How about you?

With four young boys in tow – we don’t get to see as much of the world as we’d like to. However, at Mall of America, you can see the most beautiful parts of the U.S. when you experience FlyOver America.

Our family of six visited this attraction during Christmas vacation and we LOVED it! It was an incredibly unique way for all of us to see parts of our great country that we have not seen before.

Each picture on this wall is a location that you fly over during your ride!

It’s a 4D/Virtual reality ride that makes you feel like your soaring through the open air (yet seated) with a giant screen and 180 degree views! The seats move up and down and sway to the side.

When you fly over the pine trees, you feel the wind in your face and SMELL PINE!

When you fly over the ocean towards Hawaii – you get spritzed with WATER!

During the holiday season, your trip also takes you to the North Pole. If you have children, visiting in November and December will be extra fun because there are “elves” that pop up throughout your travels. My boys got excited when they’d spot an elf. If the adventure wasn’t entertaining enough, adding silly elves certainly keeps kids engaged!

Here’s what I heard from my boys as we walked out of the FlyOver attraction:

George, Age 12: It was really cool! It gave me good memories.

Clark, Age 10: That was so good! I liked the blowing wind, smelling stuff, and splashes of water.

Paul, Age 8: I liked finding the elves and seeing them do funny things.

Luke, Age 5: That was SO fun! Can we do it again?!

And Ted, parent: Better than I expected.

Tickets are $19.99 for adults and $15.99 for children (12 and under). Discounts can be found online.

It’s absolutely worth a visit and will delight EVERY age group. You must be 40 inches to ride (which is about 4 years old).

For insight into the Best Day to Go to Mall of America with kids – click here.

For a peek into the Crayola Experience, click here.

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