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0 In 2021/ Book Review/ Product Recommendations

5 Books I Finished in February

Queen’s Gambit by Walter Tevis

Rating: 7/10

Review: This is the story of an orphan girl who is a chess genius, but also struggles with addiction. The book takes you on a journey through her life. Highs and lows. Wins and losses. Sobriety and addiction. Friendship and loneliness.

This is one of those RARE occasions that the SHOW was better than the book. Because I do not play chess, it was hard for me to imagine the games as they were described in the book. It was much more enjoyable to watch the games and observe the people and their surroundings. The show was excellent, and if you have Netflix, I recommend that you skip the book and watch the show!


The Boy on the Wooden Box

Rating: 10/10

Review: I couldn’t put this book down. It was SO good! It’s the phenomenal story of a boy who survived the Holocaust because he was on ‘Schinder’s list!’ Many holocaust stories are incredibly hard to read, but this one had a string of redemption and hope running through it. I loved this book and think you will too! Easy to read and an excellent book for kids ages 12 and up!

Creativity by Ed Catmull

Rating: 8/10

Review: This was written by the co-founder of Pixar. (The company that created so many of those movies we LOVE!) The early parts of the book are a little slow as he introduces himself and the formative parts of his life. I really enjoyed the parts of the book that gave ‘behind the scenes’ stories into several Pixar movies. I also loved his stories about Steve Jobs – the author describes him in a positive light. The book gave insight into how and why Pixar is such a successful organization.

She Persisted: Harriet Tubman by Andrea Pinkney

Rating: 9/10

Review: Great book to read with kids! A simple chapter book that gives a brief overview of Harriet Tubman’s life. My kids and I enjoyed it.

The Book of Waking Up by Seth Haines

By Seth Haines

Rating: 9/10

Review: I really enjoyed Seth Haines first book, Coming Clean and was excited to read his second one. This book started so slow that I almost stopped reading, but I’m SOOO glad I didn’t give up on the book. The last few chapters were amazing! The author is a lawyer and I realized he was using the first section of the book to develop his ‘case’ on how to “wake up” to true life. He shares how he began to drink heavily to cover deep pain that he was going through. He shares how many of us use food, social media, alcohol, drugs or shopping to distract us from the pain, keep us from dealing with it and allowing God to heal it.

Seth gives incredibly practical and beautiful steps to truly healing from the pain and living life WIDE AWAKE!

Here are my favorite books of 2020!

What are you reading?

0 In 2021/ Memories/ Peek into our Week

Peek into our Week: February 2021

Superbowl and Puppy Plays Ball

Puppy plays football

Now that I have a house full of guys who enjoy football, I’ve started watching the actual football game and not just the commercials (though those are fun too!) My favorite commercial is at the end of this post.

On Super Bowl Sunday, I made some chicken wings and JalapeƱo Stuffed Peppers.

During halftime, the boys were playing “flag” football in the family room, and Wrigley joined in the game. It was all fun and games – until Wrigley missed the flag and bit Paul on the side of the leg.

Clark had always dreamed of having a dog that could play football with him, and his dream came true on Super Bowl Sunday!

Also, Clark asked why the background dancers had underwear on their faces during half-time. My friend Jessica explained that it was for a good purpose, but it still looked ugly and was a weird halftime show!

I was COMPLETELY impressed with Tom Brady and the Buccaneers. What a game!


Serving With Our Neighbors

feed

In 2020, my neighbor asked if we’d want to get together for a service projects on a regular basis. Um YES!

This month we met at a local Feed My Starving Children site to pack food for the hungry. It was an amazing experience, and as we were leaving, Clark asked how soon we could come back.


Baby it’s COOOOLLLLDDD outside

We’ve had a fairly mild winter, but February was FUH-REEZING! Though most of the south shuts down when it gets to subzero temps, Minnesotans are almost un-fazed by it.

Since I’m not a true Minnesotan, I prefer to be INSIDE when the weather dips below zero. The boys and I have been playing games like Spoons, Rat-a-tat cat and Skipbo. We’ve also tried a few things from this list.


Egly boys make People Magazine!

The boys made it into People Magazine (and NOT because they are the sexiest men alive) If you haven’t seen it yet, click here to watch the video that was shared by People for “small acts of kindness day!”

Our hope is that this video inspires other small acts of kindness. If 1 out of every 100 people who watch this video are inspired to do something kind for someone else – that means more than 30,000 acts of kindness were done!!!

Back to Basketball

Paul playing ball

There was a six week hiatus from sports, but now Paul, Clark, and George are all playing basketball again. They are so fun to watch. Follow me or Ted on instagram to see their best plays.


Back-to-School

Clark, Paul and I joined Luke in going back to school. The three of them are finally in school full time and I’m teaching a couple days each week. Because of Covid, no parents are allowed to have lunch with their kids, but when I’m teaching, I get to eat with my boys! What a treat!

Face shield

It was TRICKY and HOT teaching with a face shield AND mask. Thankfully, as of last week, shields are no longer required!


Valentine’s Day Fun

“I chews You!” George made this alligator box for Luke

Life with Wrigley

Wrigley is sleeping through night and mostly ringing the bell when he needs to go out. He likes people and playing catch. The boys love him sooo much!


What I’m listening to:

I love Bob Goff and enjoy his podcast. This episode was so inspiring!

What I’m watching:

Has anyone watched this series on Apple TV? It’s so good!

What I’m reading:

This book is amazing!

My favorite Super Bowl commercial:

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What have you been up to? Leave me a comment!

0 In 2021/ Motherhood/ Product Recommendations

One simple way to keep our children healthy

Today’s guest post was written by my friend Mary Nolan. Mary is a West Point Graduate. After college, she defended our country in the Army and even earned a Bronze Star Medal for her heroism while serving oversees. She is now a mom to three and also earning her doctorate in Chinese Medicine.

Mary, take it away…


It was well after dark one night recently as I stood washing the last of the dinner dishes in our finally peaceful home, staring out the window, thinking ā€œChildrenā€™s health ā€¦ yeah, that shouldnā€™t be too tough!ā€ Ohhh, the logic of a hopefully optimistic, definitely sleep-deprived parent.

Iā€™d say itā€™s a broad topic, one wrought with a myriad of medical literature, clinical data, cultural influence, and a few emotion-based opinions. 

  • The vaccination debate? Yep ā€“ thatā€™s part of it.
  • Increasing rates of type II diabetes in children? Thatā€™s one for Ted Talks. 
  • The merits of good, old-fashioned exercise on the playground? Ok, a bit more palatable for the casual reader. 

So, true to the tactics of a mother desperately trying to channel three young children out of the house, I silenced my swarming inner dialogue with a much simpler choice ā€“ tea or wine?

Wine won. I sat down with that glass of wine and asked ā€“ what is one of the most ardent actions I incorporate daily towards my childrenā€™s own health?

Hand washing

I came up with hand washing

Wait – donā€™t stop reading yet.

Call it the prior U.S. Army Preventive Medicine Officer in me, or just the wisdom (i.e. mental scarring) of parenthood post-family-sick-day, but there is a tendency to overlook simple solutions to many seemingly complex problems. 

Hand washing is perhaps the most basic, repeatable public health measure with the greatest impact on community (let alone childrenā€™s) health. 

Aside from the obvious benefits of reducing exposure to harmful bacteria, hand washing is a perfect example of positive deviance ā€“ the idea of building up capabilities people already have rather than introducing something new that requires additional resources. In the case of hand washing, itā€™s something we can do, often and well, to systematically knock down the plethora of microorganisms that our little ones tend to encounter and then propagate through the family.

Why is hand washing so important? If youā€™re anything like me, you can almost see (ā€¦even feel) little microorganisms colonizing public railings, commercial floors (heck, our own floors!), door handles, restaurant high chairs, toilets (and anything within 3 meters of them ā€¦), and nearly anything your child reaches down to grab and says ā€œLook!!ā€ Well many of those microorganisms find their way not only onto your childrenā€™s ever-curious, sensory driven hands, but then into their eyes, nose, and most cringe-worthy, their mouths. Hand washing with soap and water can cut that cycle of germ-spreading not just from the source to your child, but from them to their dear siblings, friends, classmates, and YOU. Sure anti-microbial soaps have us all concerned about TOO much protection from bacteria and not enough exercise for our immune systems, but thatā€™s where I say send the kids outside and let them bask in the glory of natural flora. The suns UV rays denature most of what will harm them out there anyway. Itā€™s what tends to lurk indoors and on people and surfaces that leads to those loathsome family sick days.

So what would you say is the best way to implement hand washing into the daily routine? Well, back to those years when I was a Preventive Medicine Officer in the Army, getting thousands of gritty, mission-focused Soldiers to adopt something so mundane meant making it their ticket to the good stuff: 

  • Want to get into the mess hall for chow? Wash your hands. 
  • Want to go back to your unit and hit the rack? Wash your hands. 
  • Want your mail and packages? Wash your hands.

Basically, hand washing stations became checkpoints for all major actions throughout the day, and were especially inevitable around food. 

I like to say: ā€œIf you think about washing your hands, itā€™s time to do it.ā€ 

ā€œIf you think about washing your hands, itā€™s time to do it.ā€ 

That little mantra alone, coupled with the prevalent visual reminders, worked wonders to turn awareness into action.

Now apply all that to the typical child – it may take strapping a mobile sink to them as a front pack to achieve that level of consistency. But luckily, you can employ measures like washing hands every time you come home, or better, every time you leave a public place.

If your children are anything like mine, their hands and mouths make contact no less than 180 times per minute, and we want to minimize how much is transferred between the two in a BIG way ā€“ especially in the COVID season! 

Make hand washing the first step of setting the table or a prerequisite to opening the fridge for a snack. Spice up the soaps you keep at each sink in your home ā€“ my son has been asking to wash his hands since I put an exfoliating soap in the guest bathroom (4 year old boys love some sand)!

So hand washing ā€“ a simple tool in your tool box for bolstering childrenā€™s health. But you donā€™t have to take it from me. The Centers for Disease Control sums it with facts like these:

Handwashing:

  • Reduces the number of people who get sick with diarrhea by 31% 
  • Reduces respiratory illnesses, like colds, in the general population by 16-21% 
  • Handwashing with soap could protect about 1 out of every 3 young children who get sick with diarrhea and almost 1 out of 5 young children with respiratory infections like pneumonia
  • Handwashing education and access to soap in schools can help improve attendance
  • Good handwashing early in life may help improve child development in some settings

Handwashing may help improve child development?? Well, sign me up!! Iā€™ll bring the soap! 

Hand washing

I loved this article written by my friend Mary and hope you did too. It’s a simple and practical way to stay healthy during this crazy season of our lives.

If you are running low on hand soap, may I suggest you add some to your Amazon cart:

Excuse me while I go wash my hands…

0 In 2021/ Food/ Inspiration/ Motherhood/ Raising boys

Guest Post: Budget-Friendly Ways to Encourage Your Kids to Make Healthy Choices

According to the American Heart Association, one in three children in the United States is overweight or obese. Children will carry the eating habits they learn at a young age into their adult years, so itā€™s important to equip them with the ability to make healthy food choices. Whatā€™s more, itā€™s important to teach your child to make healthy choices in all aspects of their lives, from safety to fitness. Here are some budget-minded strategies that work.

Be a Good Role Model

Parenting, as you well know, means shifting priorities in order to meet the needs of your young loved ones. This may mean fitness goals, education pursuits, career choices, even healthy sleeping habits all get ā€œback burneredā€ ā€” gladly and without hesitation ā€” in order to make room for children and their needs. But if you find yourself now getting better sleep and with some time on your hands (within reason), then it may be time to pursue that online business degree you’ve always wanted to get back to. It’s never too late to recommit to a goal, especially with flexible schedules and deadlines. Itā€™s one way to model the behavior you expect from your children ā€” making learning a priority throughout life. Plus, it has the potential to help you along in your career pursuits.

Keep Healthy Snacks in the House

You donā€™t want to deprive your children or yourself of delicious food. However, having a constant store of unhealthy food on tap creates a habitual pattern of eating. Some kids will go looking for it, some will pester you for it, but all will be expecting chocolate, chips, or sugary drinks at some point. Leave these as occasional treats, and when you do choose to
enjoy them, buy only what youā€™ll be eating that day. Donā€™t buy multipacks or two-for-one offers, and throw out whateverā€™s left over at the end of the day. Besides, you might be surprised at how tasty ā€” and affordable ā€” a healthy snack can be.

Fruits and nuts, for instance, can be easy on both your wallet and your waistline. And to give your child a sense of ownership over their snacks, allow them to use things like toaster ovens and microwaves to prepare their snacks ā€” with supervision, of course. (Click here for more healthy snack ideas)

Teach Your Kids the Importance of Physical Fitness

Itā€™s often a lot easier to have the kids lose themselves in online activities and video games instead of encouraging them to go outside and get some exercise. However, maintaining a healthy weight involves staying fit, and that means stepping away from technology and finding ways to get moving. For example, if your child likes to play basketball video games, encourage them to take up the sport in real life. And if you need gear, look around online to see where you can pick up used sporting goods.

With a little exploring, you can find places to pick up store returns for a song, or websites like eBay offer both new and used equipment at affordable prices.

Discuss Safety When Home Alone

Are your kids old enough to leave at home while you pop out to the store for something? If so, then you need to discuss the importance of not answering the door when a stranger comes calling. Thankfully, technology allows us to see whoā€™s at our door without setting foot outside.

Most modern-day security systems ā€” even budget-friendly models ā€” allow us to use cameras inside doorbells to safely see whoā€™s on the other side. Discuss the dangers of answering the door for strangers with your children, and teach them how to properly use your home security system for those times when youā€™re away.

Your Overall Strategy

This is not the time for a firm hand because using pressure and coercion can actually have the opposite effect on eating habits and fitness. Your goal is to encourage your children to make healthy choices, using positive reinforcement, shared experiences, and role modeling.

It will take some time, but eventually, this creates a pattern of behavior that persists even when youā€™re not there to enforce it. As long as you take your time, plan ahead, and keep a cool head, you can instill healthy habits in your children that will last for a lifetime.


Thank you Amanda Henderson for writing this helpful parenting post today! Find more at SafeChildren.info

3 In 2021/ Recipe

Game Day Recipe: Bacon and Cheese Stuffed JalapeƱo Poppers

Jalapeno popper

Here’s one of my favorite game day snacks!

Here’s what you need:

jalapeno ingredients

Ingredients

(this can be doubled!)
  • 6-7 jalapeƱos
  • 1/2 cup Shredded Cheese (a little extra is always ok!)
  • 4 oz cream cheese
  • 3/4 t Seasoning Salt
  • 1-2 pieces of bacon (When I know I’m making poppers, I make some bacon for breakfast and set aside a piece or two for later)

Instructions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Spray cookie sheet with cooking spray or spread bacon grease on pan.

Cut the tops off the jalapeƱo. Slice jalapeƱos in half and remove all seeds. Lay jalapeƱos on cookie sheet.

Chop bacon into bits.

In a microwave safe bowl, add 4 oz of cream. Warm in microwave for about 15 seconds so that the cream cheese becomes soft and is easier to mix.

Add the shredded cheese, bacon bits, and seasoning salt. Mix well.

Spoon into jalapenos.

Bake for about 15 minutes.

Take them out of the oven, throw a little extra cheese on top, bake for 5 extra minutes.

Enjoy!

Hope your team wins!

Want more recipes?

Click here for a simple salsa recipe!

Super Simple Summer Salsa – YUM!!!

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hummus

0 In 2021/ Book Review

Books I read in January 2021

The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino

Rating: 10/10

Review: Wow! This should be required reading for every high school and/or college student. It was phenomenal. It’s not a book about sales, though it would certainly help if you are in sales. It’s really a book about how to get the most out of life and how to be the best version of yourself.

Itā€™s about man who inherits these 10 ancient scrolls that are the ā€˜secret to successā€™. Each scroll has a specific focus and they are extremely powerful!

I will go back to this book again and again.

Thanks to my husband for recommending that George and I read this together.

Here are just a couple of quotes from the book:

If you don’t own this book, do yourself a HUGE favor, click here, add it to your cart and spend the $8 to purchase a copy! You can thank me after you read it.


John Adams by Janet Benge

Rating: 9/10

Review: I listened to this on my Hoopla App. This book gives insight into the heart and mind of one of our founding fathers in an easy-to-read style.


Teaching from Rest by Sarah Mckenzie

Rating: 10/10

Review: A friend recommended this book and I wasn’t sure if I’d like it. To me, the title inferred ‘sleeping on the job.’ Teaching Young Kids and REST do NOT co-exist! However, I later realized the title means ‘teaching without frenzy and anxiety.’ It means teaching with peace.

This book encouraged me as I was learning how to homeschool four boys. What I loved most is the focus on the relationships OVER the assignments! 

If you know your child is guaranteed admission into Harvard but youā€™ll have to destroy your relationship to make that happen – would you do it?


The Writing Life by Annie Dillard

Rating: 6/10

Review: The Writing Life was not what I was expecting. I thought it would give me writing input and advice. Instead, it was a series of essays about Annie Dillard’s daily life and her writing struggles.


Dare to Lead by Brene Brown

Rating: 8/10

Review: I’ve been listening to this audio book in small bits over the last two months. It’s a compilation of thoughts and research on what makes an effective leader. I found that it got better the further into the book I read/listened. It gave me insight into building a better blog, as well as how to have better communication within my marriage.


Children’s Books I read with my kids:

The following books would be great to read for Black History month (February):
black history

My Daddy, Martin Luther King Jr.

Rating: 10/10

The Freedom Box: True Story of the Underground Railroad

Rating: 10/10

Sweet Clara and the Freedom Quilt

Rating: 10/10

Superheroes are everywhere by Kamala Harris

Rating 8/10

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Hidden Figures

Rating:9/10

Thanks for reading! What would you recommend? Leave a comment!

For the best books I read last year, click here!

0 In 2021/ Peek into our Week/ Raising boys

Peek into our First Weeks of 2021

Here’s what we’ve been up to recently:

“Snow” much SNOW:

The pond behind our house is frozen – at least 12 inches of solid ice – so it’s become the boy’s blank canvas to ‘create!’

They’ve made an ice rink to play soccer and skate, they’ve made forts, trails and whatever else they can imagine!

After a recent snow storm, the boys noticed an elderly woman shoveling her driveway all by herself. All four boys grabbed their shovels and helped her finish.

So many books, so little time

I have a goal to read 50 books this year…here are a few I plan to read. Have you read any of these? Which one should I start with?

Life with Wrigley:

Luke and Wrigley up at 5AM!! :(
Luke and Wrigley both up at 5AM!

Having a puppy really is like having a new baby – so I’m kind of exhausted. The boys are amazing at taking him out during the day – but I’m up with him EARLY!

We’ve been “sleep training” him by putting him in the crate at night. The first two nights he whined a lot, but is now sleeping through the night. At first he was up by 5AM! He woke me and Luke up with his barking and whining. Now he’s sleeping til 6AM. That still feels too early, but I know he’s a baby and all my ‘babies’ like to wake up early.

Wrigley enjoys playing outside. Usually he’s only out for 30-60 minutes. We take him for walks (or he takes us for a walk)…and he plays with the neighbor’s doodles.

Wrigley is WELL LOVED!

George and Wrigley

Luke’s first week of school:

Luke and his friends going to school

Just as we were getting in a rhythm of distance learning, Luke started school again.

Luke completed his FIRST FULL WEEK OF SCHOOL! Though kindergarten began in September, he’s never spent 5 full, consecutive days in the classroom until now. Clark and Paul will start in February and George will continue distance learning for now.

How’s your new year been? Leave me a comment!

0 In 2021/ Product Recommendations

These are a few of my favorite things: 15 Amazon products I love!

Top 7 favorites for families and kids:

Conversation Cards

These cards have opened up so many wonderful conversations with my boys!! I’ve loved having these on my dinner table. You never know what kids are going to say!


Bike Rack

We ordered this bike rack on amazon and it’s been super helpful at keeping our garage a little more organized.


Space Heater

For staying warm in your office or bathroom, I love having a space heater! When I worked, I kept a space heater under my desk. Now, I keep one in my bathroom.



Sticker Art

This is the coolest little craft for kids. They match up the stickers with numbers and make the prettiest pictures. Their art work turns out so cool you could frame it!

paint by sticker

Pencil Sharpener

If you are homeschooling right now, you know how many pencils your kids are using right now.

This pencil sharpener has been priceless!


What do you Meme?

My son George received this as a Christmas gift and it has been so fun for our family! We have all laughed really hard!

This game is like ‘Apples to Apples,’ but you have to pick the best MEME to go with the picture. Best meme wins the round. Great for ages 8 and up.


Book – How Great is our God? by Louie Giglio

I’ve been reading a page out of this book most mornings to my kids. It connects nature and Creation to who we are in Christ.


Top 8 For Grown Ups:

Unkers

Unkers is soothing cream to rub into any ache or pain. This 7 oz. container has lasted us over 3 years. We all love it!


Govino Wine Glass

The Govino wine glass has been my favorite since my friend Nadia introduced them to me over 2 years ago. They are light weight, dishwasher safe and DON’T BREAK!


Dual Tip Caligraphy pen

Whether you are writing a thank you card or making a grocery list – This is just a FUN pen to write with!


Garage Door Accents

Update your garage for less than $12!!!!


Picture hangers

My sister is an Interior Designer and recommended these. WHERE have they been all my life? They make hanging pictures so easy! No hammers needed. No big holes!


Air Fryer

I used my friend Stacey’s air fryer when I was at her house, then immediately bought one when I got home. They cook with “air” but it makes things taste fried! We love ours and use it all the time!


Phone case

My husband and I both have these phone cases – he has this solid black one, I ordered the pretty floral one. I love that I rarely have to bring anything with me except my phone.


Prevail: 365 Day of Strength from God’s Word

My mom purchased this book for me and my sister and we are loving it. Susie Larson’s authenticity, wisdom, and ability to weave truths into actionable faith steps is such a gift. 

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