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0 In 2025/ Family/ Memories/ Minnesota/ Peek into our Week/ Raising boys

Family Life Lately: Kids, Cold Season, and One Naughty Pup


Well, it’s been a while since I’ve shared a family life update, and what better time to do it than now—while I’m camped out in bed with a cold, trying to avoid spreading my germs to the rest of the house. They say moms don’t get sick days, but today I’m calling in “semi-sick-but-still-managing-life-from-my-pillow” mode. So, with a little extra time and a lot of tissues, here’s what’s been going on in our corner of the world.



The Cowboys


George won’t stop growing up on me and is a JUNIOR in high school. He’s also taking a college class, working part time, and playing rec basketball.

Clark is busy with 9th grade basketball and spending any extra time with friends (he hopes to get to know every single person in his high school).

Paul is in 7th grade and busy with two different basketball teams and travel soccer, any free moments are spent cheering on his friends at THEIR sporting events.

Luke is keeping busy with wrestling and hanging with new neighbor friends and old neighbor friends.


Boys Weekend

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Ted and the boys had an unforgettable weekend together—complete with football, food, and father-son bonding. As an early Christmas gift, Ted took them out for dinner, played games at the Mall of America, and treated them to a hotel stay. The highlight? Sunday’s Vikings football game, which was Paul and George’s first ever! They LOVED it!


Book Launch Party x 2

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I’m so thankful to the neighbors and friends who came to our Turtle Trouble book launch parties! We had door prizes, a live reading, a hot chocolate bar, plus a visit from the illustrator. She created a custom coloring sheet, so we hosted a coloring contest for prizes too.

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Christmas Day Recap

On Christmas morning, the boys came downstairs to find just four presents under the tree—two of which were for Ted. Paul immediately asked if there were more gifts coming. I smiled and told him he’d find out soon.

After breakfast, I sent the boys on a scavenger hunt to find their gifts. Once all the presents were found, I had another game ready to decide who got to open the first one. We alternated between games and opening gifts, giving us more time to enjoy each other’s company.

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Christmas Scavenger Hunt

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While the boys weren’t thrilled about the games (or me taking videos), Ted gently reminded them that participating was a gift to me. And though they pretended not to enjoy it, I could tell they did.

Once the games and presents were over, we had lunch, enjoyed the new gifts, and capped the day with ice skating and sledding in the evening.

The rest of Christmas break was low-key, as the flu made its way through the family one by one.

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School Daze

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Lately, I’ve been making the rounds in schools, reading to kids and teaching every grade from K-12. It’s been a blast—though let me tell you, shifting gears from kindergarten chaos to middle school energy keeps me on my toes. Every day is a new adventure!

One highlight? When I was teaching at a middle school recently, I scored an exclusive invite to sit with the cool kids—the middle school boys—at lunch!

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Minneapolis Date

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Ted and I recently managed to escape for a much-needed date—because sometimes you’ve got to remind yourself that you are more than just your kids’ snack supplier and chauffeur. We explored the Minnesota Sculpture Garden, where we tried to interpret what the sculptures were supposed to be: Is it a deep metaphor or just a giant spoon?

We then walked across the bridge to Gai Noi and enjoyed some amazing curry. It was one of those perfect afternoons where we felt like grown-ups again.

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Wrigley’s Goes to Jail

Wrigley is doing great… aside from one minor run-in with the law.

It all started when I let him outside. Normally, he never leaves our yard, but of course, this one time, he decided to explore—I should add that he wasn’t wearing his collar. Thankfully, a kind neighbor one street over, found our adventurous (and overly friendly) dog. Not knowing where he belonged, she kindly escorted him to the local police station.

Apparently, Wrigley’s charm didn’t stop with our family; he sweet-talked the officers into taking his mug shot and posting it online to see if anyone recognized him. When I got a text from our neighbor asking, “Is this Wrigley?” I ran to check outside. No Wrigley. I asked the boys—no one had seen him. Sure enough, the fugitive in question was our Wrigley… chilling at the police station.

The reunion was equal parts embarrassing and sweet. Wrigley wagged his tail and jumped up to give me a hug, and I gave him a lecture he clearly tuned out.

He’s home safe now, keeping my reading spot warm and probably dreaming about his next “adventure.”

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Turtle Trouble Book Love

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Thanks to each of you who have purchased a copy of Turtle Trouble! I appreciate the love and support. It’s not too late to get a copy for a school, hospital, library, or child in your life! Click here to buy one, or send me a message for signed copies.

If you have a copy of the book – would you please leave an Amazon review (by clicking here)! Every review helps promote the book! Thank you in advance.

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And that’s the latest from our little corner of the world—complete with kids, chaos, and one (now) law-abiding goldendoodle. Life is not always be picture-perfect, but it’s full of stories that keep us laughing, learning, and sometimes stopping by the police station.

Thanks for catching up with us! Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to refill my tea, grab a book, and see if Wrigley left me any room in my reading spot.

Until next time—stay well, stay warm, and maybe keep an eye out for any furry escape artists!

0 In 2025/ Family/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip

Practical Tips for Parents to Foster Curiosity and Learning

Guest Post from Janice Russell

Instilling a genuine love for learning in children is a gift that keeps on giving. As parents, the role you play in shaping your child’s educational journey is profound. By fostering an environment that encourages exploration and critical thinking, you can help your child develop a passion for knowledge that transcends the classroom. This involves not just providing resources, but also modeling a commitment to learning in your own life. The journey of education is not a sprint but a marathon, and your involvement can make all the difference in how your child perceives and values learning.

Inspiring Lifelong Learning by Returning to School

To instill a love of learning in your children, one of the most effective methods is to lead by example. Choosing to further your education demonstrates that learning is a lifelong journey, fostering personal growth while opening doors to new career opportunities. For example, pursuing professional certifications in fields like IT, project management, or teaching can expand your skill set and make you more competitive in your industry. Enrolling in online courses or workshops to master a new language, learn coding, or explore creative fields like photography or graphic design can also enrich your personal and professional life. Whether you’re earning a master’s degree in nursing to enter advanced practice roles, obtaining financial planning credentials to better serve clients, or simply taking classes to develop a hobby into a side business, your dedication to continuous learning not only advances your career but also inspires your children. It shows them the value of perseverance, adaptability, and self-improvement.

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Creating a Study Space at Home

Creating a dedicated study area at home can boost your child’s enthusiasm for learning, even if space is limited. Consider setting up a small, defined area in a quiet corner of the living room, kitchen, or bedroom. Use portable tools like a lap desk, noise-canceling headphones, or a small caddy for supplies to keep the space organized and flexible. Positioning the area near a window for natural light can improve mood and reduce eye strain, making the space more inviting. With a little creativity, you can make any area work, showing your child that learning is always a priority.

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Encouraging Learning Through Play

Incorporating educational toys into your child’s playtime can significantly enhance their cognitive development while keeping learning fun and engaging. Toys such as puzzles, building blocks, or STEM kits encourage problem-solving and critical thinking by challenging children to find solutions and think creatively. These activities promote logical reasoning, spatial awareness, and strategic planning—skills that lay the foundation for future success. By blending play with learning, educational toys not only nurture curiosity and perseverance but also help children build confidence as they overcome challenges and explore new ideas.

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Click here to read Kathryn’s post on the value of PLAY.

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Maintaining a Nurturing Home

Maintaining a nurturing home for your child is crucial in fostering their love for learning. By creating a calm home, you help them manage emotions and focus better, which reduces stress and enhances concentration. This approach supports a positive learning atmosphere and encourages personal growth by teaching self-regulation skills. Implementing a consistent daily routine within this space can further boost your child’s sense of security and understanding of expectations, leading to improved behavior and engagement. 

For more on this, read Kathryn’s post entitled: Don’t just survive motherhood, Thrive in Motherhood.

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Asking Open-Ended Questions

To nurture your child’s innate curiosity, consider the power of asking open-ended questions. For example, instead of asking, “Did you like the book?” try asking, “What did you find most interesting about the story?” Or, instead of “Did you have fun at school today?” ask, “What was the most exciting or challenging part of your day?” These questions invite children to explore and articulate their thoughts freely. This enhances problem-solving skills and boosts confidence in expressing ideas. By engaging in such dialogues, you help your child become more open-minded, enabling them to view the world from different angles and continuously learn. Engaging in these thoughtful conversations strengthens your bond and creates opportunities for meaningful growth.

Your efforts to cultivate a love of learning in your children can have a lasting impact on their lives. By embracing strategies that encourage curiosity and critical thinking, you lay the groundwork for a future filled with exploration and discovery. Whether through setting a personal example, creating conducive learning environments, or asking the right kinds of questions, your role is pivotal in shaping a lifelong learner. The journey of education is ongoing, and your involvement can inspire a passion for knowledge that endures.

Thanks for reading the guest post by Janice!

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Click here to read tips on how to find more JOY in Motherhood.

0 In 2024/ Things to do in Minnesota

Top Ten Most Clicked Posts of 2024

Most Clicked Posts 0f 2024

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Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, and anyone who accidentally clicked this—welcome to my Greatest Hits of 2024! These are the crowd favorites (or at least what the algorithm decided you’d like). Buckle up—it’s a highlight post you didn’t ask for but are definitely getting!

Note: You can click on the pictures or titles to read the full post.

1. How to Host an Amazing Back Yard Birthday Party

I know most birthday parties are held at a ‘play place’ these days, but there is something special about a backyard birthday party. Some of my favorite childhood memories involve backyard games with friends. Now I enjoy re-creating those memories with my kids and their friends. Not only are backyard parties fun and memorable, they can cost less and save you some money.

If you are considering an outdoor birthday party, click here for some tips and tricks to make it a memorable day.

2. 24 places to explore in the Twin cities

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If you are looking for some family fun in Minnesota, this post is for you!

3. Best Gifts for Teen Boys

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Before I had teens, it was challenging for me to think of something to give them besides cash, now I have three teens and a bunch of ideas for what to gift them. Click here for ideas.

4. Four books to read in 2024

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Here are four amazing books to check out and consider reading this year.

5. Fun and Easy Elf on the Shelf Ideas

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Parents (me included) have a love/hate relationship with the Elf on the Shelf. Our kids love it and look forward to this Christmas tradition – but the work of REMEMBERING to move him each night, and the problem of coming up with creative places to hide him, sap some of the joy out of this tradition. Many parents found this post helpful during the holidays.

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6. 15 Fun Facts about Minnesota

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I had so much fun researching this post! I was surprised by how much there was to learn about Minnesota when I moved here.

7. How Not To Hate Winter

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I spent the majority of my life dreading winter, but I’ve discovered that with the right mindset (and a few tricks), you can actually enjoy it. Click here for some tips to help shift your perspective from ‘I hate this season’ to ‘Okay, this isn’t so bad!’

8. How to Host an Indoor or Outdoor Scavenger Hunt

A scavenger hunt is the perfect mix of adventure, problem-solving, and excitement. Whether indoors on a rainy day or outside exploring nature, it’s a guaranteed hit! Click here to read more.

9. 20 Free, Fun, Family-friendly Places to Visit in Colorado Springs

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If you live in Colorado Springs, or are planning a trip with family, click here to see some amazing places to visit for free!

10. 12 Verses that will help you Choose Faith over Fear

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Did you know that there are 365 verses in the Bible about fear? A verse for EVERY SINGLE day of the year! Nothing surprises God. He knew that every single day of our lives, we’d have something to fear. So, he gave us a Scripture for every day to combat our fears. Click here to see the verses.

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Click here to read highlights and top posts from 2023.

0 In 2024/ Book Review/ Product Recommendations

Life’s Too Short for Bad Books – Here are the 10 Best Books I read in 2024!

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Are you looking for a good book to read in the New Year? I’ve got you! Of the 42 books I read in 2024 – here are my favorites. Which one are you adding to your “to read” list of 2025? What should I read this year? Leave me a comment by clicking on the little text box by the title of this post!

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1. Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown

My Favorite Book of the Year:

Daniel James Brown’s The Boys in the Boat masterfully recounts the true story of the University of Washington’s underdog rowing team and their journey to win gold at the 1936 Berlin Olympics. Set against the backdrop of the Great Depression and the rise of Nazi Germany, this narrative captures not only the physical demands of rowing, but also the emotional and personal struggles faced by the young men who made up the team.

The main character, Joe Rantz, overcomes a heartbreaking childhood of abandonment and poverty. I was incredibly inspired by Joe’s hard work and resilience throughout his young life.

Whether you’re a sports enthusiast or love a good story, The Boys in the Boat is an amazing true story and was my favorite book of the year!

Recommended For: Fans of historical non-fiction, sports enthusiasts, and anyone who loves stories about overcoming adversity.

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2. The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobby CS Lewis

C.S. Lewis’s The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe is a book that has captivated readers of all ages since its publication in 1950 (75 years)! I was honored to get to read this book with my two younger sons this year, and we absolutely loved every page. We laughed, we cried, and we had good discussions about faith, decision making, and courage. When we finished, my 10 year old son asked me to find another book just like it.

This book tells the story of four siblings—Peter, Susan, Edmund, and Lucy—who stumble into the magical world of Narnia through a wardrobe. CS Lewis masterfully weaves themes of bravery, redemption, and sacrifice, making the story meaningful on multiple levels. We fell in love with Aslan – the lion who is a symbol of wisdom and selfless love.

If you’ve, like me, somehow missed reading this wonderful book – add it to your #must-read list this year!!

Recommended For: Fans of fantasy and anyone who loves tales of adventure and good overcoming evil.

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3. Unreasonable hospitality by Will Guidara

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“Unreasonable Hospitality” by Will Guidara is part memoir/part restaurant talk. As the former co-owner of Eleven Madison Park, Guidara shares his journey to becoming the best restaurant in the world, emphasizing the significance of going above and beyond for both guests and staff.

I loved reading about the ways Guidara and his team created unforgettable experiences, such as running out to purchase a street hot dog for guests who hadn’t tried one during their visit to New York, or overhearing that someone’s meter was running low – so a team member ran out to feed the meter for every guest in the restaurant!

I found the story incredibly engaging, with excellent storytelling and practical insights for hospitality.

Bucket list item since reading this book: Get to one of Guidara’s restaurants!!!

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Recommended For: Leaders, entrepreneurs, hospitality professionals, and anyone interested in creating amazing customer experiences. Also, if you are a fan of The Bear, this book inspired this show!

Click here for a great Ted Talk by the author!

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4. George Washington Carver by Janet Benge

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Review: This inspiring life story traces George Washington Carver’s journey from being an orphaned child born into slavery, to becoming a renowned scientist, educator, and humanitarian.

I absolutely loved this book and have such deep respect and admiration for this man.

I was incredibly inspired by George Washington Carver’s determination to pursue an education. Despite having to work tirelessly just to attend school, he remained committed to his dream. When he finally saved enough for college and was accepted, he faced heartbreaking rejection upon arrival—they hadn’t realized he was Black and refused to let him attend class. Deeply discouraged, Carver nearly gave up on his dream. But with the encouragement of a friend, he applied to Iowa State University, where he was accepted and went on to become their first Black graduate.

After graduating from college, he became a scientist and teacher, but had a passion for helping farmers thrive. When cotton farming became unprofitable, he encouraged farmers to plant peanuts instead. The crops were so abundant that farmers soon found themselves overwhelmed, unsure of what to do with all their peanuts. Carver prayed and asked God for wisdom and what to do about the “Peanut Problem.” God inspired Carver with over 100 innovative uses for peanuts—including one of America’s favorite snacks: peanut butter!

Ephesians 3:20 “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.”

Recommended For: Children and teens who are interested in science and nature. Families and educators looking for an incredibly inspiring historical figure.

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5. The Women by Kristin Hannah

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Kristin Hannah’s The Women is a compelling historical fiction book that delves into the experiences of female nurses during the Vietnam War, focusing on the main character, Frankie McGrath. The story captures the harrowing realities of war and the personal sacrifices made by those who served.

I enjoyed this book and was able to get a peek inside the Vietnam War, as well as an idea of what soldiers faced upon returning home from the war.

Recommended for: Women who enjoy historical fiction.

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6. The Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese

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“The Covenant of Water” by Abraham Verghese is a historical novel that follows the lives of a South Indian family over three generations. The story delves into the family’s mysterious hereditary condition, where members in each generation succumb to drowning, referred to as “The Condition.” 

Verghese’s storytelling is deep and relatable, weaving together themes of love, loss, faith, and medicine.

My only critique is that it is LONG (736 pages), so it will take you awhile to get through this one. If you can overlook the length, it’s an extremely well-written, engaging book!

Recommended for: Someone who loves a well-written novel, with a bit of history, mystery and medicine mixed in.

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7. Elizabeth Fry by Janet Benge

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This book delivers an engaging biography of a lady who dedicated her life to improving the conditions of prisoners, particularly for women and children.

In this fascinating true story, we learn that Elizabeth Fry’s faith, resilience, and compassion for female prisoners, changes the trajectory of their lives. The book highlights her groundbreaking efforts to bring education, humane treatment, and spiritual care to prisoners.

Fry worked at changing the conditions inside prisons, all while being a mother and wife. Her story is a powerful reminder of the impact one person can have when driven by conviction and love for others.

Recommended for: People who enjoy a good biography about an inspiring person.

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8. Because of Winn Dixie by Kate DiCamillo

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I read this book with my youngest sons, and we all really enjoyed this heartfelt book. The novel follows 10-year-old Opal, who has recently moved to the small town of Naomi, Florida, with her emotionally distant preacher father. When Opal adopts a scruffy stray dog she names Winn-Dixie, her life begins to change in surprising ways. Winn-Dixie isn’t just a dog; he’s a catalyst for connection. Through him, Opal befriends an eclectic group of people..

DiCamillo’s writing is simple, yet deeply moving, capturing both the innocence of childhood and the complexity of human relationships. The story beautifully explores the importance of community.

Recommended for: Family read-aloud or anyone (ages 8 and up) who loves a sweet, heart-warming story!

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9. Prevail by Susie Larson

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If you are looking for an excellent devotional, I recommend this one! It’s designed to guide readers through the entire Bible over the course of a year. Each entry includes a Scripture passage, insightful commentary, thought-provoking questions, and practical application steps, aiming to deepen one’s faith and understanding of God’s Word.

Susie is a phenomenal Bible teacher and I highlighted SO much goodness in this book, here’s just one quote:

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Recommended for: A person of faith looking for a solid daily devotional.

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10. The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson

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The Splendid and the Vile is a gripping historical narrative that explores Winston Churchill’s first year as Prime Minister of Britain during World War II. You will feel like you are Churchill’s right-hand man/woman as he leads Britain through the darkest days of the Blitz, when Nazi Germany relentlessly bombed London and other cities.

Things I enjoyed about the book:

  • Churchill’s Leadership Under Pressure: Churchill’s resilience, charisma, and ability to rally the British people are amazing. His powerful speeches, courage, and personal resolve helped change the trajectory of a county, and ultimately, the war.
  • Personal Stories: Larson doesn’t just focus on Churchill, but also weaves in the experiences of his daughter, wife, and inner circle. The author blends diary entries and letters – which make this story multi-dimensional and really come to life.
  • Relationship with the US: It was interesting to read about Churchill’s efforts to get support from the United States and President Franklin D. Roosevelt. He didn’t give up, and ultimately got America’s support, turning the tide of the war.

Recommended for: Those who enjoy WWII history, leadership books, or just a compelling story from our history!

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So now that you’ve read my list of favorites, what are yours? Please leave me a comment by clicking on the little box by the title of this post!

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Click here to read my favorite books of 2023

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0 In 2024/ Book Review

The 43 Books I Read in 2024

At first, I felt like I hadn’t read nearly as much this year as in years past. But when I sat down and made a list, I realized I had finished over 40 books!

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People often ask me how I manage to read so much, and here’s my answer:

  1. I love to read. You make time for what you love.
  2. I always have a book nearby. There’s one in my car, one by my bed, one in the living room… you get the idea.
  3. I count audiobooks as reading. Out of the 43 books, I listened to 15 of them. Audiobooks make it easy to fit reading into walks, commutes, and chores.

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For full reviews of these books, you can check out my Goodreads profile [link here]. But here’s the simple list with my personal ratings.

📚 Biographies & Historical Non-Fiction

The Wager by David Grann – 9/10

Milton Hershey by Janet Benge – 10/10

Ben Franklin by Janet Benge – 10/10

John Newton by Janet Benge – 9/10

William Wilberforce by Janet Benge – 9/10

George Washington Carver by Janet Benge – 10/10

Nate Saint by Janet Benge – 9/10

Elizabeth Fry by Janet Benge – 9/10

Becoming Elizabeth Elliot by Ellen Vaughn – 8/10

Being Elizabeth Elliot by Ellen Vaughn – 10/10

57 Bus by Dashka Slater – 6/10

Night by Elie Wiesel – 10/10

The Splendid and the Vile by Erik Larson – 10/10

The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown – 10/10

Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman! by Richard Feynman – 7/10

Laura Ingalls Wilder by Janet Benge – 9/10

🙏 Faith & Spiritual Growth

The Study of Romans by Melissa Spoelstra – 9/10

Anxiety, Depression, and Jesus by Aaron Hoover – 10/10

Every Day a Miracle by Matthew Brown – 9/10

Ruling in the Gates by Joseph Mattera – 7/10

Prevail by Susie Larson – 10/10

👨‍👩‍👦 Read Aloud with the Kids

Marvel by Levi Lusko – 8/10

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis – 10/10

Because of Winn-Dixie by Kate DiCamillo – 10/10

The Adventures of Robin Hood by Roger Green – 8/10

The Wild Robot by Peter Brown – 8/10

The Winter Rescue by Paul Hutchens – 8/10

📖 Fiction

Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng – 7/10

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin – 7/10

The Women by Kristin Hannah – 9/10

Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese – 9/10

Peace Like a River by Leif Enger – 9/10

I Cheerfully Refuse by Leif Enger – 9/10

The River We Remember by William Kent Krueger – 8/10

🧸 Parenting

Praying Circles Around Your Children by Mark Batterson – 8/10

Spiritual Conversations with Children by Lacy Borgo – 10/10

Don’t Miss It by Reggie Joiner – 8/10

🛠️ Personal Development & Leadership

Today Matters by John Maxwell – 8/10

16 Undeniable Laws of Communication by John Maxwell – 8/10

A View from the Top by Zig Ziglar – 9/10

Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara – 10/10

The Multiplication Factor by Mark Walker – 10/10

Guerilla Marketing for Writers by Jay Levinson – 8/10

Click here to find out which books made the TOP TEN list of 2024.

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Click here to see my favorite books from 2023!

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0 In 2024/ Christmas/ Inspiration/ Joy/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip/ Raising boys

Finding Peace & Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season

🎄 Finding Peace and Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season🎄

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The holidays are meant to be the happiest time of the year, but for many, they can feel like the most stressful time of the year. Extra to-dos, packed schedules, and high expectations can leave us overwhelmed and far from the peace we hope to experience.

We decorate our homes with pillows and ornaments that say “Love,” “Joy,” and “Peace,” yet that is NOT what we are feeling. Why? Because in the crazy, we forget all self-care. We skimp on sleep, skip exercise, and don’t drink enough water—all while trying to “do it all.”

But what if this year could be different?

Crystal Paine from Money Saving Mom suggests a simple approach: list all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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List all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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At our house, we’ve made similar adjustments. When my kids were little, we put up a tiny tree on a table to make decorating manageable. I rarely bake Christmas cookies because I know I’ll just eat them all. And we don’t overdo gifts.

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Little George and Clark
3 year old George and 1 year old Clark

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Instead, we focus on simple traditions like:

  • Decorating the tree and sharing stories about our favorite ornaments
  • Driving around to see Christmas lights
  • Watching Christmas movies
  • Reading Christmas stories (and THE Christmas story)
  • Listening to Christmas music

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Hanging new ornaments they received for Christmas

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These are the moments our kids remember—not the perfectly decorated house or an endless stack of gifts. What they really want is a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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What our kids want is a a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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When you feel stress creeping in, turn to Jesus. He’s your strength and peace. Time with Him isn’t just another thing to add to your list; it’s the thing that makes everything else better. He can calm your heart, help you prioritize, and multiply your time in ways you never imagined.

The peace, love, and joy we see on those Christmas decorations aren’t just words—they’re promises. Take a moment to stop, breathe, and ask Jesus to fill your heart. Let His love guide your season and remind you of what truly matters.

This year, may you embrace a holiday filled with peace, love, and joy—the kind that comes not from doing more but from being present in the moments that count.

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My Challenge for YOU:

As you prepare for this holiday season, ask yourself: What is one thing I can let go of to create more peace in my home?

Let it go, and replace it with something that brings true joy—whether it’s quiet time with Jesus, a relaxed evening with family, or simply resting.

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Click here for tips on a big Christmas with a small budget.

0 In 2024/ Christmas/ Motherhood/ Raising boys

Best (Christmas) Gifts for Teen Boys

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In just a few days I will have THREE teen-age boys in my house!

Finding the perfect gift for a teen boy can feel like cracking a secret code. With so many options out there, it’s tough to know what will really hit the mark. Whether you’re shopping for a sports enthusiast, tech lover, budding entrepreneur, or someone who’s impossible to shop for, this guide has you covered. These gift ideas are not only practical but are sure to bring a smile to even the most hard-to-please teen. Let’s dive into the best gifts for teen boys that they’ll actually love!

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1. Hoodie

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The #1 thing I see teens wear every day is a hoodie. The top picks? Nike or their favorite sports team.

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2. Joggers

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Along with the hoodie, this is what most teen boys are wearing.

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3. Airpods

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Most teens need earphones or earbuds for school. Having AirPods is something special.

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4. Sports Jersey

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Find out their favorite team and/or player, and most teen boys would love a jersey.

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5. Socks

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I’m not sure where the socks go, but it seems my boys are always in need of them. Throughout the year, most of their socks come from Target. However, at Christmas they get some upgraded socks. Nike Elite are their favorites.

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6. Fast Food Gift Cards

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Teenage boys can EAT! Gift cards to their favorite restaurants are a huge hit. Taco Bell, any hamburger place, Chick-fil-a, Chipotle and Subway are some favorites.

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7. Personalized Bracelet

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This is my teenage son’s favorite thing to wear. A customized bracelet with a word of your choice. His word is “strength.” He also has “courage” and “faith.” Choose a word that describes your teen, or a message they need to hear, and this may become their favorite item.

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8. New Ball

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The #1 most played with gift for my boys from day 1, has always been ANY type of ball. If your child plays a sport, perhaps this is the time to get them an upgraded ball.

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9. An experience

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My teens love Top Golf!

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  • Movie tickets
  • TopGolf
  • WhirleyBall
  • Escape Room – Mall of America has the BEST escape rooms!

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10. Sports Equipment

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Does your child have a sport or activity that they enjoy – perhaps a new golf club, sport bag, etc.

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11. Baseball Cap

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In my area, teen boys love Waggle Hats. Another favorite is a baseball hat from their favorite team or city.

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12. Shoes

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Teens grow FAST! This is the time of year to get them a new pair of running shoes, cleats, crocs, birks or any shoe of their choice.

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13. A Book

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The #1 book I recommend for teen boys: Chop Wood, Carry Water. Perhaps you could offer a teen some $ if they read and give you a report on what they learned?

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14. Game

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Many teens are outgrowing board games, but we still have family game night at our house. The prefer games that make them laugh or require strategy.

Here are a few suggestions:

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Click here to see our top ten family board games.

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15. Shirt

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Again, teens are GROWING and usually in need of more clothes. Now is the time to buy them a shirt from their favorite team, and Nike shirts are always a hit as well.

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16. Bike

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If your teen has outgrown their bike, this is a good time to buy them a new one. You can also find a used one on Marketplace.

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17. Basketball Hoop

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Whether your kids love basketball or not, this is a gift that could provide hours of entertainment and draw the neighbor kids to your driveway or backyard!

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18. Customizable Water Bottle

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Am I the only one with a teen who can’t keep track of his water bottle? Get one with their NAME on it!

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19. Cologne

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Is your teen asking for cologne but not sure what he’d like or what smells good? Get him a sample pack.

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20. Gaming System

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21. Necklace/Chain

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22. Slippers

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23. Facewash/Acne Face Stickers

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24. Spikeball

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25. Hookie Game

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I want to acknowledge that these items can add up FAST! Christmas for teens can be SPENDY, but it doesn’t have to be. Work within YOUR budget. Let your teens know where you are and what they can expect this year. You can also buy many items second-hand to save money.

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Tips on saving:

  • Check marketplace for hand-me-downs.
  • Buy ONE item for Christmas.
  • Share this list with grandparents or someone interested in buying a gift for your teen.

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Do you have something to add? Leave a comment!

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Turtle Trouble: An Unforgettable Adventure with the Egly Brothers – Share to Win!

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(Skip to the end to see how to WIN!)

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Have you ever reached into a mystery box without knowing what’s inside? The mix of excitement, a little fear, and a whole lot of fun? That’s how the Turtle Trouble book begins—a true story of curiosity and teamwork, featuring the four Egly brothers.

Turtle Trouble brings to life one of our family’s unforgettable adventures, where a fun-filled “What’s in the Box?” game takes an unexpected turn. What started as a simple challenge spiraled into something wilder. When a frog and a turtle join the game, the boys can’t wait to put their bravery to the test!

But, of course, adventure always comes with a twist: soon after a turtle appears, it mysteriously disappears! What follows is a fast-paced family search that has everyone wondering—where could the curious creature have gone? Will the boys be able to solve the mystery before it’s too late?

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Turtle Trouble

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The True Story Behind Turtle Trouble

Writing this book was a joy! With four energetic boys, our family’s life is often filled with adventures, unexpected detours, and moments that make us laugh (or scramble!). The “What’s in the Box?” game was a favorite in our house, where each turn promises something new and exciting. But when real creatures entered the game, we were in for a story that would go down in Egly family history.

Turtle Trouble is a story of teamwork, curiosity, and a family’s determination to solve a problem together. Just like our last book, it’s about celebrating kindness, cooperation, and the fun of family life. Our boys had so much fun creating this memory that I knew I had to ‘re-create it’ into a book that we could share with other families.

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Here is actual footage of the day this story was created:

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Where to Find Turtle Trouble

If you’re looking for a story to make your little ones laugh, gasp, and cheer along with the Egly brothers, you can find Turtle Trouble on Amazon! It’s a perfect read for kids who love animals, mystery, and a dash of family fun.

Signed copies will be available in December and would make a wonderful Christmas gift for any child up to age 12.

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How to Win a Signed Copy:

Share this blog post or this link on instagram, Facebook or any of your socials and TAG ME! Every place you share gets you entered to win a signed copy!

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Thank you for supporting Turtle Trouble—we hope it brings as much joy to your family as it has to ours!

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Six Steps to Self-Publish Your Book

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You’ve decided to write a book – congratulations! You are entering a world where words are your sword, coffee is your shield, and editing will be the dragon you slay – continually.

The path to publishing is full of creativity, collaboration, and—let’s be real—a few headaches. Whether you’re aiming for the New York Times Best Seller List or just want to share your story with the world (or at least your mom – I love you mom), follow these steps and you’ll be well on your way to becoming the next great author. Or, at the very least, you’ll have a book.

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I chose to self-publish for several reasons:

  • Self-publishing allowed me to tell the story exactly how I envisioned it, while maintaining control over the publishing timeline.
  • I wanted the flexibility to share the book with any school or bookstore and to manage my own schedule for events.
  • I felt confident in my ability to promote and distribute the book independently.

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If those reasons resonate with you, or your tired of getting your manuscript ignored or denied by a traditional publisher, this might be the path for you.

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Here are the steps I’ve used when publishing my children’s books:

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Step 1: Write and Re-write:

  1. Write a rough draft: Begin with a clear outline and write your first draft.
  2. Read out loud: This helps in identifying awkward sentences, flow issues, and grammatical errors. 
  3. Edit and rewrite: Revise your manuscript for clarity, coherence, and consistency.

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Step 2: Get Feedback

  1. Hire an editor: Consider hiring a professional editor to review your manuscript.
  2. Beta Readers: Find readers in your target audience and gather feedback.
  3. Online writing communities: Share excerpts on writing platforms to get constructive feedback.

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Step 3: Illustrations

  1. An artistic friend or relative: Discuss your vision for the illustrations.
  2. A high school or college student: Check their portfolio and ask for samples for your manuscript. 
  3. Hire someone online: Use platforms like Fiverr, Upwork, or consider hiring a professional illustrator.

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Step 4: Graphic Design/Formatting

  1. Collaborate with a designer who can integrate text and images. 
  2. Ensure the designer can format the book for various platforms, including Kindle Direct Publishing.

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Step 5: Promote your book!

  1. Author Website: Create a website to showcase your book, share your story, and engage with readers. 
  2. Crowdfunding campaign: Utilize platforms like Kickstarter or GoFundMe for pre-sales and marketing. 
  3. Social Media and Word of Mouth: Leverage social media platforms, engage with potential readers, and encourage word-of-mouth marketing.

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Step 6: Sell your book

  1. If selling on Amazon, every order will put money in your pocket.
    • You decide the price.
    • When someone places an order, Amazon will print on demand, and send you a percentage (around 30%).
    • Ask those who’ve purchased your book to leave a review.
  2. Purchase a bulk order of your books on Amazon to sell on your own.
  3. Book Stores – connect with book stores to sell your books!

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Found my book inside Poor Richards!

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Receive a signed copy of both books when you Venmo me $25:

https://venmo.com/u/Kathryn-Egly

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Now that you’ve written, rewritten, gotten feedback, found an illustrator, and maybe cried into your keyboard a few times, you’re ready to promote and sell your masterpiece! From launching a website to charming people at your events, your author journey is just beginning. Sure, there will be moments where you wonder why you didn’t just take up knitting, but trust me, seeing your book in readers’ hands makes it all worth it. So, get out there, share your story, and don’t forget to celebrate.

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Click here to purchase a copy of “The Great Lake Rescue” on Amazon

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Fall Break in the Twin Cities

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When we moved to Minnesota I didn’t understand why people would go “up north” for vacation. Wouldn’t they want to go SOUTH and find sunshine and warm weather. Well, when I finally went “up north,” it all made sense. It’s magnificent.

As fall break approached, we thought about indulging in more of that ‘up north’ beauty. But instead, we decided to stay home, check out some local spots, and take a breather before sports and the holiday busy-ness have us running.

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Here are some highlights:

  • Clark and Paul found recipes on TikTok. While I was working at the Artisan Home tour, they road their bikes to Aldi, bought groceries with their own money, and cooked chicken and pasta for the family! I could not have been more proud.

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  • We made a trip to the Mall of America, where we explored the new Museum of Illusions—such a fun and mind-bending experience.

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  • First college visit for George! We got a tour of the University of Minnesota. What a BEAUTIFUL campus.

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The U of M has one of the largest campus bookstores in the county.

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Beautiful historic buildings on the U of M campus!

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  • We went to a Minnesota Timberwolves preseason game against the Denver Nuggets. Unfortunately, AntMan was not playing, but it was still a fun game to watch.

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  • Clark was back on the court. He is playing on a ‘pre-seaon’ team before his first ‘high school’ try out. Here’s a quick video highlight:

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  • Luke had one additional day off so we spent the day together playing pickle ball and going to The Wild Robot. It was a cute movie, but we like the book better.

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We are loving this unusually warm fall in Minnesota. The tree outside my house is bringing me absolute delight!

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Thanks for reading and happy fall, y’all!