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0 In 2019/ Family/ Minnesota/ Things to do in Minnesota/ Traveling

We toured the US – without leaving our state!

Minnesota is a beautiful place, but I’d like to see what the rest of the country looks like too! How about you?

With four young boys in tow – we don’t get to see as much of the world as we’d like to. However, at Mall of America, you can see the most beautiful parts of the U.S. when you experience FlyOver America.

Our family of six visited this attraction during Christmas vacation and we LOVED it! It was an incredibly unique way for all of us to see parts of our great country that we have not seen before.

Each picture on this wall is a location that you fly over during your ride!

It’s a 4D/Virtual reality ride that makes you feel like your soaring through the open air (yet seated) with a giant screen and 180 degree views! The seats move up and down and sway to the side.

When you fly over the pine trees, you feel the wind in your face and SMELL PINE!

When you fly over the ocean towards Hawaii – you get spritzed with WATER!

During the holiday season, your trip also takes you to the North Pole. If you have children, visiting in November and December will be extra fun because there are “elves” that pop up throughout your travels. My boys got excited when they’d spot an elf. If the adventure wasn’t entertaining enough, adding silly elves certainly keeps kids engaged!

Here’s what I heard from my boys as we walked out of the FlyOver attraction:

George, Age 12: It was really cool! It gave me good memories.

Clark, Age 10: That was so good! I liked the blowing wind, smelling stuff, and splashes of water.

Paul, Age 8: I liked finding the elves and seeing them do funny things.

Luke, Age 5: That was SO fun! Can we do it again?!

And Ted, parent: Better than I expected.

Tickets are $19.99 for adults and $15.99 for children (12 and under). Discounts can be found online.

It’s absolutely worth a visit and will delight EVERY age group. You must be 40 inches to ride (which is about 4 years old).

For insight into the Best Day to Go to Mall of America with kids – click here.

For a peek into the Crayola Experience, click here.

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3 In 2019/ Book Review/ Product Recommendations

Top Ten Books of 2019

My last post included 47 books I read in 2019. (Click here to read it). I enjoyed most of them, but here are my FAVORITES of 2019. If you haven’t read these yet, add them to your:

“Must Read” list of 2020!

Each is an affiliate link, that means if you click and decide to purchase, I may earn a small commission for recommending that product! Thanks for reading!

1. The Magnolia Story by Chip and Joanna Gaines

Rating: 10/10

Review: This was the first audiobook I listened to in 2019 and I absolutely LOVED it! Chip and Joanna have a FASCINATING story that they tell in their own words. The book includes the story of how they met, as well as the hilarious story about how their show Fixer Upper almost didn’t happen. This is probably a fun book to read, but the Audiobook is amazing because the story is told by the authors! You can listen for free if you have a library card and use the Hoopla app!

2. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown

Rating: 10/10

Review: I listened to this one on my Hoopla App and recommend that you do the same. Brene shares stories on Joy, Vulnerability, Courage and Connection throughout the entire book. It was EXCELLENT!

Key Takeaways:

  1. The whole-hearted person cultivates rest and play.
  2. Brene says she has never interviewed a single person who lives with Joy without ACTIVELY practicing Gratitude. The one difference to becoming a JOYFUL person? Practice gratitude. When you look into the faces of your children and experience the shudder of vulnerability – actively express gratitude. (RATHER than catastrophizing). When a fear comes, verbally express gratitude. 

3. Fully Alive: Learning to Flourish Mind, Body and Spirit by Susie Larson

Rating: 10/10

Review: I listened to this on my Hoopla App, but would like to read this in printed form so I can highlight and underline. This book is filled with truth and encouragement.

“Jesus wants us to flourish. He wants us whole. He wants to take what the enemy meant for evil against us and turn it for good. He wants us to live life bold and free, courageous and steadfast.”

Susie Larson

Fully Alive is a journey of healing from the inside out through the redemption of Jesus’s eternal love for us. Susie suggests healthy ways to replace destructive thoughts and habits and answers to the anxiety, fear, and worry that weigh us down.

“Picture Jesus Himself holding your face in both of His nail-scarred hands and looking directly into your eyes. Hear Him say to you, “I love you. I see you. I hear your cries. I remember you. I will take on your pain. I will heal you.” Let those words soak into your soul!”

Susie Larson

4. Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

Rating: 10/10

Review: I don’t read a lot of fiction. I’d rather be reading about someone’s life or learning something new. However, my friend gave me her copy of this book and said she loved it. Once I started reading, I COULD NOT PUT IT DOWN. Delia is a phenomenal writer and I see why this book is a New York Times Best Seller. At the time of this post, this book has received nearly 30,000 5-star reviews on amazon! (I have 1% of that with my book!)

It’s the story of a girl who raises herself. It’s a captivating story about how she survives, who she chooses to trust, and how she provides for herself.

This a great book to take on vacation.

5. Educated by Tara Westover

Rating: 10/10

Review: I neglected nearly all household chores for 24 hours to devour this memoir. Tara Westover shares her fascinating story of growing up in a Mormon family, not being allowed to attend school or do anything that her family considered “worldly.” She ends up teaching herself so that she can take, and pass ,the SAT. She then gets into college – and goes on to get her PhD. That is my short and boring version of a fascinating story.

6. Maybe you should talk to someone by Lori Gottlieb

Rating: 10/10

Review: I saw a friend recommend this book and decided to purchase it. When it arrived in the mail, I read the first two pages to get a feel for what the book was about…but then I couldn’t put it down. I stayed up way too late too finish this one. When I read the last page, I wanted to read it again.

This is a book written by a therapist and writer – Lori Gottlieb. She shares stories about some of her clients, as well as what she learns from her own therapy. I appreciated the insights she gives about her patients and her own behavior.

7. God Smuggler by Brother Andrew

Rating: 10/10

Review: This is an old book that I finally read for the first time this year. It’s a fascinating true story about a missionary who smuggled Bibles into communist countries. The story describes one miracle after the other and leaves you full of hope and joy. It strengthened my faith in the goodness of God. This would be a good family read-aloud!

8. Janet Benge books

Rating: 10/10

Review: Janet Benge writes biographies of people who made a positive difference in this world. Each book is about an ordinary person who does something extraordinary with their life. Her books are great for ages 8 and up. I recommend you read to or listen with your children or grandchildren. They are easy-to-read and so engaging! The three I read this year were:

I loved each one and plan to read more aloud with my boys this year!

9. 40 day Joy Challenge for Moms

Rating: 10/10

Review: This was written by women, for women. They are Bible studies for each day to help you live a life of joy. Included in this study is access to a short teaching video on Joy by Tommy Newberry.

This would make at the perfect book for a small group Bible Study!

There’s new study about to be published. Read it with me in the spring of 2020. Click here to check it out.

10. The Blind Side by Michael Lewis

Rating: 10/10

Review: I’ve always loved to read, but sometime between babies 3 and 4, I took a break from reading. I was just too tired and too busy.

However, after watching “The Blind Side” movie... I wanted to read the story behind the movie. I checked this book out from the library. The book was so interesting that I couldn’t figure out why I ever stopped reading. Michael Lewis is a phenomenal writer. This book was the catalyst to me reading voraciously again.

This year, I decided to reread The Blind Side. It’s the perfect book for football season because there is so much insight into the sport. I love this book and recommend it to anyone who loves a good, true story! You’ll especially enjoy it if you like football.

What was your favorite book of 2019! Leave me a comment!

Also – is there a book you are looking forward to reading next year? Let me know! Ted’s already set out a stack of books for me to read this year.

Click here to read the other books I read in 2019 – some really GOOD, some really BAD!

Click here to read my 9 of 2018!

May your 2020 be full of GOOD STORIES!

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1 In 2019/ Book Review/ Product Recommendations

47 of the Books I read (or listened to) in 2019

As you may know (or can figure out from this post) I love to read! Here are some of the reasons I read:

In this post, I’ve rated and reviewed 47 of the books I’ve read (or listened to) in 2019.

This post includes some REALLY GOOD BOOKS and a couple of REALLY bad ones too! However, this post includes my FAVORITE books of the year.

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Here we go…

1. The book of Awesome by Neil Pasricha

Rating: 10/10

Review: Super easy-to-read book filled with 1000 reasons to smile! The whole book is written about things that are AWESOME. SOOO many things that I take for granted and forget to be grateful for ..like:

  • Free samples,
  • tripping and realizing NO ONE SAW YOU!
  • Going to buy something and finding it on sale, ETC. 
  • If you are in a need of a reason to smile … I recommend this book or his blog 1000awesomethings.com

2. The Book of Even More Awesome by Neil Pasricha

Rating: 8/10

Review: The title sums it up. Another book filled with things to make you smile. Not as good as the first one, but a fun book to read. The author lists and describes so many things that are awesome that we sometimes take for granted!

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 3. Small fry by Lisa jobs

Rating: 6/10

Review: It’s a very well-written autobiography of Steve Job’s (creator of Apple) daughter, but I don’t recommend it. It’s a sad story without a redemptive ending. For a better autobiography, I’d recommend:

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4. Capitol Gaines – by Chip Gaines

Rating: 8/10

Review: Chip shared some really fun and interesting stories throughout the book. Overall, it was an inspiring book that shows how hard work, integrity, and a good attitude (plus a smart spouse) can still lead to success. The Gaines family has turned the town of Waco, TX from a place you’d just drive through to get to Austin, to a destination city! There was no reason to visit Waco ten years ago – now people come to visit from all over the world.

5. When breath becomes air by Paul Kalanithi

Rating 10/10

Review: An extremely touching book and powerful story. A memoir of a brain surgeon who is diagnosed with cancer. I couldn’t put this book down, it was a great story and easy to read. However, the ending ripped my heart out!

6. The Broken Way by Ann Voscamp

Rating: 10/10

Review: Since I chose Ann Voscamp’s book, One Thousand gifts, as my favorite book of 2018, I had to pick up her second book. It did NOT disappoint! I loved it. In this book, Ann shares how our brokenness can lead to beauty.

7. The five love languages by Gary Chapman

Rating: 10/10

Review: A classic book that I highly recommend! This book teaches that each person receives loves differently. If we want to make our spouses feel loved, be sure to speak their “language.” If you don’t know what it is, take this quiz.

The 5 Languages are:

  • Physical Touch,
  • Acts of Service,
  • Words of Encouragement,
  • Receiving Gifts,
  • Quality Time

8. The five love languages of children by Gary Chapman

Rating: 10/10

Review: A great book for parents!! It’s helping me understand how to communicate with my kids in a way they will feel loved.

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9. Things I wish I’d know before I got married by Gary Chapman

Rating: 9/10

Review: I went to two weddings this year and it made me curious as to what Gary Chapman would say to those who are about to get married. EXCELLENT book for newlyweds and those who are considering marriage!

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10. Seeking Allah finding Jesus by Nabeel Quresh

Rating: 10/10

Review: This book was written by a man who grew up with a strong Muslim faith.  In college, his best friend was a Christian. The two of them had a mutual respect because of their strong faith in God. As they grew in their friendship, they began to challenge each other’s faith. As the author did research to defend his Muslim faith, he began to realize that he COULD NOT defend his faith. The more he studied, the more he realized that there was no truth behind his Muslim faith. This book challenged me as a mother to teach my kids the WHY behind What we believe. We have a defendable faith. It’s based on a solid foundation of historical truth. This book made me decide to read:

11. Talking with your kids about God by Natasha Crain

Rating: 9/10

Review: This book took me a while to read because their is a lot to digest. However, I love how each chapter brings up an interesting question like “Do science and faith contradict each other?” and answers each question with facts and evidence.

Read the post on how both books impacted me by clicking here.

12. War of Art by Steven Pressfield

Rating: 7/10

Review: This book has been on our shelf for years. I finally took time to read it this year. It has such high reviews that I had high expectations. However, my thoughts matched what someone said on Amazon: “Here is this book in a nutshell: what do you want to do? Have discipline and do it. I just saved you ten dollars. You’re welcome.”

13. Collapse of Parenting by Leonard Sax

Rating: 7/10

This book is a little too doom and gloom for me. However, there were some golden nuggets that I pulled out and here they are for you:

  1. Spend time with your kids. Even when they act like they don’t want to be with you–they really do. Find something they like to do – and do that with them!
  2. Have dinner together
  3. Go camping or find a family getaway where you aren’t connected to work and cell phones
  4. Play games together
  5. Remember YOU ARE THE PARENT, we’ve got 20+ years experience and yet we let our children decide what is best.
  6. Have access to all their social media accounts.
  7. Limit video games
  8. Don’t overschedule
  9. Give your kids chores
  10. Self-control is the leading indicator of overall life satisfaction and we, as parents, can help our kids learn self-control with things like: Not allowing dessert until they eat their veggies; Having them put their own toys and clothes away; Praise working hard over getting the right answer.

14. Changes that Heal by Dr. Henry cloud

Rating: 6/10

Review: I listened to this book on my Hoopla App and I wasn’t super into it. I wouldn’t recommend listening to this one – if the title intrigues you, check out the real book from the library.

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15. I’d Like You More If You Were More Like Me by John Ortberg –

Rating: 10/10

Review: John is such an amazing teacher and writer. He is funny and vulnerable. I listened to this one and LOVED it! It dives into your relationship with God and others.

16. If you want to walk on water, you’ve Got to get out of the boat by John Ortberg

Rating: 9/10

Ted read this book on our honeymoon, 18 years ago (just after publication) and I finally listened to it on my Hoopla App this year.  The book challenges you to put away the mentality that you need to know what God’s doing before you agree to obey and follow. John Ortberg talks about the positive difference walking in faith can do for your life!

17. You are a bada** by Jen Sincere

Rating: 4/10

Review: Skip this one. The author gives terrible advice. For instance, ‘buy a really expensive car to motivate yourself to earn more money.’ Don’t waste your time or money on this one. If you want a motivational, self help book – Choose a Zig Ziglar one instead!!

18. Zig Ziglar on Leadership

Rating: 10/10

Review: If you use the Hoopla app, open it up, type in the name “Zig Ziglar” and listen to any one of his 30 books. He is so practical, so funny, and so encouraging! His books are full of real life stories that pull you in and teach you something.

19. It’s not supposed to be this way by Lysa terkhurst

Rating: 8/10

Review: I recommend this book to anyone going through a crisis.

Feeling the pain is the first step toward healing the pain.

Lisa Terkeurst

20. 100 things to do in the Twin Cities before you die – Tom Weber

Rating: 8/10

Review: Before we moved to Minnesota, the only place I knew about in this state was the Mall of America. This book shares 100 interesting things to do around the Twin Cities and was really fun to read. I can’t wait to start checking them off my bucket list! If you are visiting or live in the Twin Cities, I would recommend this book to you!

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21. The Gift of Failure – by Jessica Lahey

Rating: 8/10

Review: This is a very insightful parenting book. I don’t see myself as a helicopter parent, but I realized I’m doing things for my kids that they should be doing themselves. I often want to show love for my kids by picking up after them, over-helping with things that they are capable of doing alone, preventing them from learning from their own mistakes…all things that keep them from maturing and becoming capable young men. This book had lots of helpful stories and insightful research. I would definitely recommend it to parents who have children 7-17!

22. Help club for mom “The Wise Woman Grows”

Rating: 10/10

Review: This is a woman’s devotional book I read through last semester with a group of women from around the world. If you are a woman, click here to join our group on Facebook! 

23. Holidays with the Help Club

Rating: 10/10

Review: An awesome resource for moms! Organizational guide, motivational and simple bible studies to help you have the best holiday season.

24. Another Man’s War by Sam Childers

Rating: 10/10

Review: This book is an amazing true story about a man who goes to the most dangerous parts of Africa to find orphaned children and provide safety for them.

25. Living on the Edge by Sam Childers

Rating: 4/10

Review: After LOVING his first book (Another Man’s War), I was excited to read the second one. However, this book was a HUGE disappointment. The author chose to tell the story in his own words and “self-published” the book so he could say everything he wanted to say. This was a huge mistake. Most of the things he chose to write about in this second book were unnecessary and inappropriate. I threw my copy away.

26. Surviving a spiritual mismatch – by Lee Strobel

Rating: 8/10

Review: I heard the author of this book speak on a podcast and was intrigued by his story – I wanted to read his book to see how they got through the season when their beliefs collided. I highly recommend this book to anyone married to, or considering marriage with someone who has different a different faith than you.

27. Unashamed by Lecrae

Rating: 8/10

Review: I listened to this autobiography on my Hoopla App, read by the author, rap artist Lecrae. I’m not a huge “rap” fan but this artist impresses me! The book is well written and easy-to-read. Recommended for ages 18 and up. Some of his life experiences would be considered ‘for mature audiences only.’

What stood out to me about his story was how he spent so much of his life struggling because he didn’t have a positive male role model in his life. This book reminded me how important dad’s are in the lives of their children. Those man-to-man conversations are something our boys crave. 

28. Tailor Made by Alex Seeley

Rating: 7/10

Review: I saw that she would be speaking at a Women’s Conference I was attending, and I’d never heard of her, so I decided to read her book. This is a great book if you are struggling with insecurity. She talks about feeling stupid and not good enough throughout her life, and how she overcome that.

29. Relational Intelligence

Rating: 9/10

Review: This is my second reading of this book. I knew I could use a refresher in relational intelligence after moving to a new state and needing to make new friends. The book teaches that our relationships have a direct correlation to the quality of our lives. Most of us give less than optimal effort to our relationships. Yet…

Our day to day human interactions will determine the quality of our lives more than the tasks of work we do.

By cultivating relational intelligence, we can enhance our ability to affect the people around us more positively. 

30. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Coleman

Rating: 5/10

Review: A very data-driven book and not all what I was hoping for.

31. Let your Life Speak by Parker Palmer

Rating: 8/10

Review: A book about becoming who you are created to be.

True self is the self that is planted in us by the God who made us – becoming who we were created to be.

Parker Palmer

32. Life Together by Frederich Buechner

Rating: 7/10

Review: I loved the book Bonhoeffer – a book ABOUT Bonhoeffer, but I’d never read a book written BY him. I found one of his books on my Hoopla app and listened to it. It’s a little too deep to listen to. I need to hold this book in my hands and read it slowly to truly appreciate it.

33. The Bookish Life of Nina Hill by Abbi Waxman

Rating: 5/10

Review: This was the first fiction book I read after “Where the Crawdads Sing” and it just didn’t come close to the character development, storyline and detail of that book.

34. My Father’s Dragon by Ruth Stiles Gannett

Rating 9/10

Review – I read this with my boys. Great beginner chapter book for kids to read, or a fun, fiction story for parents to read WITH your kids ages 5-12!

35. Play by Stuart Brown

Rating 9/10

Stuart Brown started as a Violence researcher and switched to a PLAY researcher. The book starts with the story of an open shooting. When research was done on the history of the shooter – they found that he was never allowed to play as a child. His father was extremely controlling and regimented. 

The opposite of play is NOT work. The opposite of play is depression. 

The book answers the question: 

What is play?

He describes it as time spent without purpose.

Most of us think time without purpose is WASTED time. We want to GET THINGS DONE!

Stuart Brown

I recommend this book to anyone with kids or anyone who has a hard time having FUN and relaxing!

36. The Road back to you by Ian Cron

Rating: 9/10

The is a new book about understanding the Enneagram. If you don’t speak “enneagram” – it’s is an ancient personality system that helps you understand how you are wired, both positively and negatively. In The Road Back to You Ian Morgan Cron gives practical ways to use the Enneagram to connect with, and understand, different “personality types.”

37. The BoxCar Children and the Mystery Behind the Wall

Rating 6/10

I found this old book and decided to read it to my boys because I LOVED the Boxcar series as a child. The book is older than me, so some of the language is a little outdated. My kids weren’t super engaged in the story, and I didn’t love it as much as I did as a child. However, if you have a child who likes to read mysteries – the Boxcar series are simple chapter books that are fun to read.

38. The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosaria Butterfield

Rating: 8/10

Review: An interesting book that provides practical examples of how you can incorporate hospitality into your everyday life.

39. Paul Harvey’s For What It’s Worth

Rating: 8/10

Review: I used to love listening to Paul Harvey with my grandfather. This book is like turning on the radio and hearing his voice again. The book is filled with fun, funny, or inspiring stories sent in by his listeners.

40. The Purpose of Christmas by Rick Warren

Rating 9/10

Review: This is a great book for a person who may not be familiar with the true meaning of Christmas. A simple, encouraging, easy-to-read book about Christmas.

The entire reason for Christmas is the love of God. God loves you so much that he came to earth as a human so you could get to know him and learn to trust him and love him back.

Rick Warren

41. Creating a Story Brand by Don Miller

Rating: 9/10

Review: I listened to this audio. It’s read by the author, Don Miller. It is an EXCELLENT book for any business owner.

42. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever by Barbara Robinson

Rating 9/10

Review: This is a fun, fantastic book to read or listen to with your children at Christmas time!

43. A Cup of Cold Water – by Lorie Newman

Rating: 10/10

Review: I LOVED this book. It’s full of simple ideas to make the world a better place. I used suggestions from this book to celebrate my birthday in a unique way! Read that post by clicking here.

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44. Essential 55 by Ron Clark

Rating: 9/10

Review: This book review 55 “essentials” every kid should know and use. For instance – always say please and thank you. Make eye contact when someone is speaking to you.

I own the first edition and read it as a teacher 20 years ago and decided to re-read it from a mother’s perspective. Many of the tips apply to the classroom (on a field trip, enter the building quietly) but there were good reminders for parenting too!!

45. Sacred Ground, Sticky Floors by Jami Amerine

Rating: 8/10

Review: This book started slow and I wasn’t crazy about it, but by chapter four, I fell in love. It’s an amazing book with the sub-title: “Less than Perfect Parents can raise Kind of great kids!” She is funny and vulnerable and I recommend this one to parents with kids ages 2-12!

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46. Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey

Rating: 10/10

Review: Whether you make $40,000 a year or $400,000, Dave Ramsey gives you easy, practical ways to make your money go further. He gives a very simple strategy for getting out of debt, and saving money. His information is very useful!

I recommend READING the book versus listening on audio. I felt like Dave was shouting at me in the audiobook – but the actual book is full of useful information, interesting facts and success stories. Our copy has lots of underlines and you can WIN it by sharing this Post!

“We buy things we don’t need with money we don’t have in order to impress people we don’t like.”

Dave Ramsey

47. My Point of View by Elisabeth Hasselbeck

Rating: 8/10

Review: If you are a fan of Elisabeth, you will really enjoy this book! She shared stories from her time on Survivor, The View, and Fox and friends. She lets us in to her failures and successes. It’s a quick and easy read. My mom bought this book, let me read it and is now allowing me to give it to one of my readers!

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1 In 2019/ Christmas/ Family

Fun & Easy Elf on the Shelf Ideas

Do you have children that look forward to the Elf showing up each year?

My children LOVE this tradition.

If you aren’t familiar with it, the Elf comes each Christmas season to hang out and watch to see if your children should be on the “naughty” or “nice” list. He flies to the North Pole at night to report to Santa how your children are doing. He comes back each morning and hides in a different place in your home.

My children have enjoyed this children’s cartoon about the Elf. This would be a fun gift the Elf brings your children.

After my boys go to bed at night, I find a place to hide our Elf. I used to have to set a reminder on my phone so I didn’t forget. Thankfully, I now have helpers named George and Clark, who love to stay up and find creative things for the Elf to do!

I am not a HUGE fan of the Elf, but my kids love it so much I can’t stop. My older boys get excited about finding creative things for the Elf to do, and my younger boys are excited to wake up in the morning and search the house to find our Elf.

If you are new to this tradition, I would recommend you start just ONE WEEK before Christmas and use the SIMPLE ideas listed below.

Our elf now comes on December 1 because I have helpers to hide him.

Here are some ideas for your Elf on the Shelf Tradition!

1. Place him in a large Mason Jar with a note that says, “Show me around!”

2. Choo Choo Train Ride

3. Or a SHOE SHOE Train Ride!

4. Playing card games

5. Leave a love note

6. Just Hangin’ Out

7. Candy Cane Hide-and-Seek

Hide candy canes around the house!

8. Make happy faces on the fruit

9. Countdown-to-Christmas Paper Chain

10. Elf is peeking out of your child’s stocking

Optional: Leave a note to your child about what the Elf has noticed: A Good Thing and Something your child could work on.

11. Put him in your Christmas tree by his favorite ornament

12. Hide him inside cups.

Children have to search the cups to find him. My kids were happy he was in a cup so they could hold the cup and walk around with him. (No touching the Elf)

13. Reading a Christmas story to his friend.

14. 3 cheers for hot chocolate!

Optional: Leave hot chocolate out for your kids!

15. Just Chillin’

Just wrap a scarf around a picture or chair and put the elf inside!

16. Army men are protecting our home and they think the Elf is an INTRUDER!

I just taped that poor Elf to the wall.

17. Zip lining

This takes a little more work, but it’s always a favorite. Tie a string across a room and attach your elf to the string. Zip Line!

These were just some simple and silly ideas for you! Do you have a fun Elf prank? Leave a comment!

Last year we added a “Shepherd on the Search” to our family. My kids call him the “Christian Elf.” (LOL!) I like how the “Shepherd” keeps Jesus at the center of Christmas. The Shepherd goes on ADVENTures – keeping “advent” the center of the Holiday season. Click here for some excellent ideas for how to use the Shepherd!

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3 In 2019/ Christmas/ DIY

Create a One-of-a Kind Christmas Gift

Here’s a fun and easy, one-of-of-a-kind gift to make with your kids!

What you need:

  • Ornaments
  • Plastic container
  • Nail polish or paint of various colors

What to do:

  • Fill a container with water
  • Pour various colors of paint on top of water
  • Dip ornament completely in water or swirl around water
  • Hang to dry
  • Hang on tree or place in box to give away!

Start with a plain white ornament.

Fill a small plastic container with water and pour paint inside. I purchased nail polish from the Dollar Store.

Dip ornament into paint/water and swirl around.

Hang to dry:

Place on tree or wrap for a gift!


Here is a how-to video I created for you!

You can use this technique with other items too – including SHOES! We found an old pair of converse and turned them into a one-of-a-kind MASTERPIECE! (Put tape over the parts you don’t want painted.)

0 In 2019/ Product Recommendations

12 Unique Gift Ideas for kids

Let me start by saying that Christmas is NOT about receiving a ton of gifts. I believe it’s about ONE gift – the Gift of Jesus. Giving gifts is just one way we celebrate His birth. Time together is another way to celebrate.

When you buy gifts for your children, take time to enjoy the gifts WITH them! Play with them! You will both benefit from this time together.

What children need more than presents is YOUR PRESENCE!

Here are some unique ideas for gifts this year:

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1. A Pogo stick

Ages: 7-13

My sons have been playing with our neighbor’s pogo stick and I love this gift for many reasons:

  1. It’s great exercise!
  2. The kids get to take turns and practice sharing. They cheer each other on and congratulate each other when they beat their “high score.”
  3. The more they practice, the better they get. The better they get, the more energy they burn!
  4. It doesn’t take up much space.
  5. They can use it outside or in a basement.
  6. You can buy one new or find a nice USED one (see the post about Christmas on a budget here). I found a nice used one that my boys will get for Christmas (shh…don’t tell)

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2. Subscription box


George and the walking robot he built

Recommended for ages 2 and up

If you have a kid that likes crafts or building, I recommend a subscription to Kiwi club. We purchased a 6 month subscription to Kiwi Crate for our oldest son, and he loved it. They have different kits for different ages/interests. When you subscribe, you’ll get a box to unwrap every month. Order NOW because the kits are on sale, and your child can UNWRAP the first box on Christmas day! Click here for 60% off your first subscription.

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3. Janet Benge books

Recommended for ages 6 and up

I love to read, and I’ve read LOTS of books. I can’t believe how amazing the Janet Benge books are! Each book is a TRUE story about an inspiring person from history. Kids can read these on their own, but even better – read with them. You will love them as much as your kids will. Everyone will be asking for ONE MORE CHAPTER!

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4. A handmade photo gift – Memory Game!

I made my youngest son a memory game on Shutterfly two years ago and all my boys STILL enjoy playing with it. Each “match” has people they know and love.

This year I’m going to make them a puzzle with one of our family pictures. I love this unique option on Shutterfly!

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5. Piano lessons and a Keyboard

Ages 7 and up

My grandparents gave one of my sons the gift of piano lessons for Christmas 5 years ago – and he’s still playing.

My in-laws found a used Keyboard and gave it to our boys so that they could begin learning and practicing. Both of those gifts have been really special.

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6. Fun socks

Ages 4 and up

Socks are really COOL right now! Kids love to pull their socks up high and show off their favorite team.

Bonus – it’s something they need anyway. Christmas is a time you may want to splurge and get them their favorite themed socks.

Don’t tell me kids, but they are getting socks for Christmas.

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7. Sled

Ages 2 and up

What makes this gift Unique? You are going to Go sledding together! You won’t believe how much fun you’ll have being a kid with them! Follow my instagram stories for the sledding adventures I go on with my boys!

Sledding selfie with Luke

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8. Owl pellets

Ages 5 and up

Do something disgusting together – dissect OWL pellets. Owl pellets are the undigested parts of an owl’s food, regurgitated (coughed up through the mouth). You can find them under trees, or just buy them on amazon. (Now you know it’s true – you really can buy everything on amazon!)

I’m not usually into disecting stuff- but these are just SOOOO cool that I’m all in!

I recommend doing this outside or covering an indoor table with newspaper. Then, using gloves or small tools, open up the “pellets.” You’ll find small bones from miscellaneous animals. It’s totally fascinating, and you never know what you will discover!

Bonus – kids are learning and having fun!

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9. Drawing book – only $5

Ages 5 and up

Have your kids make Christmas pictures for family members with this book! This would be great for making THANK YOU cards too!

Other drawing book suggestions:

For boys: How to Draw SUPERHEROES

For Girls: How to Draw CUTE ANIMALS!

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10. Hatchimals

Ages 2 and up

This is a SUPER fun gift for boys or girls. I got a Hatchimal for one of my sons, now two more boys are asking for one.

You open up the box and a large EGG is inside. You get to watch an animal HATCH from the egg, then you teach it your name and other simple things.

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11. Snowball Maker

Ages 4 and up

This saves your hands from FREEZING while making snow balls. It makes the perfect snowball and is fun to use in the winter with your kids! I bought a pack of three so 3 could play at the same time.

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12. No Stress Chess

Ages 6 and up

This game taught my kids how to play chess, and now they love it!

Leave a comment if you’d like to share a UNIQUE gift idea!

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0 In 2019/ Book Review/ Faith/ My Journey

How Muslim culture influenced my Christian parenting

Read to the end for a chance to win a free book!

Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus by Nabeel Quresh

I recently read the book Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus and was deeply impacted by the way Muslim parents instill their faith into their children.

  • Muslim mothers begin reading from the Quran each and every day, out loud, to their children from the time they are born.
  • Often the FIRST book their children read is the Quran.
  • Children memorize large portions of the Quran.
  • Muslim families are a part of a strong Islamic community.

Their Islamic beliefs are often so engrained that they do not even QUESTION whether their faith is based on truth. Instead, they carry on the same beliefs and traditions with their children – reading from, teaching, and memorizing the Quran from infancy to adulthood.

This book left me asking if I’m teaching my children about the Christian faith as passionately and faithfully as Muslim parents.

As I read further into the book, the author (Nabeel Qureshi) shares how he became best friends with a guy in college who was a Christian. The two of them had a mutual respect because of their strong faith in God. As they grew in their friendship, they began to challenge each other’s faith.

As Nabeel did research to defend his Islamic faith, he began to realize that he COULD NOT defend it. The more he studied, the more he realized that there was no truth behind his Islamic faith.

After lots of research, and even a prayer for the one true God to reveal Himself, Nabeel chooses to become a Christ Follower!

This book challenged me as a mother to teach my kids the WHY behind WHAT we believe.

We have a defendable faith.

Our Christian faith is based on a solid foundation of historical truth.

Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus made me decide to read:

Talking with your kids about God, written by Natasha Crain.

The author covers the evidence for the existence of God, how science confirms the God of the Bible, the nature of God (love, and justice), how Christianity is different from other religions, and how all these things apply to us and the world around us.

If you want to talk to your children about why Christianity is true, or you just need to solidify your own worldview, I highly recommend this book!

I want to read this author’s other book, Keeping Your Kids on God’s Side: 40 Conversations to Help Them Build a Lasting Faith, next!

Click here to check out her awesome blog – Christian Mom Thoughts.

I’m giving away my copy of Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus. If you’d like to win this book – just share this post on Facebook!

The contest runs until November 25th, 2019.

WINNER – Lisa E. – Congratulations Lisa!

I’ve written a post with some simple tips for teaching your kids about God. Click here to read!

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0 In 2019/ Book Review/ Product Recommendations

What I’m loving on Amazon right now

Here are a few of my favorite things from Amazon this week. Most of these would be great CHRISTMAS gifts if you are planning ahead! Each item is an affiliate link. That just means that if you make a purchase, I’ll earn a few cents without any additional cost to you!


Winter hat and neck warmer for kids – This hat and neck wrap is so warm and cozy! My son George loves it. The neck wrap is large enough to cover his neck, as well as most of his face too – which is perfect for the really cold days we have in Minnesota. And step #1 for how NOT to HATE winter is to DRESS FOR IT!

Pretty lap top cover – Since breaking my computer, I’ve been borrowing Teds. His one request was that I get a cover for it first, since I’m not as…”careful” as he is :). I love this cover – it’s like a piece of art. It’s pretty, but not TOO feminine.

Reusable food covers – My friend introduced me to these and I am in LOVE! I have one set and use them to cover anything from leftover brownies, to dinner. You can rinse and reuse and use less plastic wrap/aluminum foil. These make a GREAT gift.

This new book by Bob Goff – His books are some of my favorites. Live in Grace, Walk in Love was just released and has a little inspiration for every day of the year.


I love this 5 year journal!

One line a day journals are an easy way to capture life. There is space to summarize your day in one paragraph. I love it because I can record funny things my kids said, or places we went, or an accomplishment I want to remember. It will be fun to compare year-to-year because this book will hold FIVE years worth of journal entries!!

Photo Albums – My Grandma June used to have matching photo albums, and I loved going through them and looking at all the people and places. I print my favorite photos and have albums that my kids and I enjoy.

Help Club for Moms Christmas edition

I just got this book in the mail and am so excited about using it over the holiday season. Not only is it a Bible Study, but it’s a full holiday resource as well! It’s a guide for planning and keeping Jesus the center of your holiday!

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1 In 2019/ Family/ Minnesota/ Peek into our Week/ Things to do in Minnesota

Getting Creative at Crayola

The boys and I spent the day at the Crayola Experience at the Mall of America and wanted to give you a peek inside!

Because the kids were out of school, it was a little bit crowded. However, there are SO many different activities to do inside, it never felt “OVERLY” crowded.

I honestly wasn’t sure how my four boys (ages 5 to 12) would do at the Crayola Experience. They aren’t really into ‘crafting’ and ‘coloring.’ However, I was surprised by how much fun we all had. It was actually ‘soul-filling’ to spend the day creating, painting, crafting and coloring. Bonus – there was no prep work or clean up involved!

Here are some of our favorite things from the day:

Crayons with our own names!
Creating coloring pages of ourselves!!

Each of us got modeling dough. I forgot how relaxing it is to be creative with play dough.

We created our own puzzles!

The boys loved decorating a paper car – then seeing it come to life on the big screen!

A crayon “mimicking” Luke’s movement
Paul playing!

All the boys enjoyed the 2-story playground. If I had season passes, I’d let them play and burn some energy every time we came to the mall.

We took a break to go eat at Chick Fil A in the food court, but since our passes were good all day, we came back to continue our fun.

We watched a live show about how crayons are made, painted with watercolors, created creatures that “danced,” colored mini ‘pets’ that we got to bring home…and more!

At first I thought the admission price was a little high. However, once we had the “Crayola Experience,” the price seemed fair. The admission price includes all of the activities and stations, the play area, the live show, the ‘mini-pet,’ a crayon that you create, and modeling dough.

The regular admission price is $17.99. You can save on the admission price through:

With a season pass, you can stop in any time for an entire year to create and play. It also includes other perks as well, which you can read about by clicking here.

Parking Tips:

Parking is free at Mall of America. I recommend parking in the EAST lot. Take a picture of your spot so that you can find your car at the end of the busy day!

Another tip: Because the mall is so big, it’s easy to forget which door you entered. When I walk into the mall, I take a picture of the first store I see. When it’s time to leave at the end of the day, I use the mall directory to find the quickest way back to that store, which will lead me to where I parked!

Thanks for reading about our day! We hope you get to experience the fun at Crayola too!

Other posts you might enjoy (just click to read):

The Best Day to visit Nickelodeon Universe!

My favorite things to do in Lakeville, MN

My Minnesota Bucket List

A Peek inside the Mill City Museum

How to Not Hate Winter

0 In 2019/ Food/ Recipe

EASY 2 ingredient Granola Bar Recipe

Here’s a recipe for the world’s EASIEST homemade granola bars that requires only TWO Ingredients:

·3 cups old fashioned oats

·1 can sweetened condensed milk

That’s it! Pop in the oven and bake for 20 minutes at 350 degrees.

HOWEVER, if you want to get fancy….here are some OPTIONAL ingredients you could consider adding:

·1/4 tsp. salt

·1/3 cup ground flax seed

·1/3 cup sliced almonds

1 scoop of protein powder

·1/2 cup peanut butter

· chocolate chips

·cinnamon

·dried fruit

·coconut

·chocolate (1 tbsp. cocoa powder)

Instructions:

1. Preheat oven to 350.

2. Mix all ingredients together thoroughly.

(If using peanut butter, melt in microwave for a few seconds first. Mix in and let cool before adding any chocolate chips.)

3. Spray a 9×9 pan.

4. Pour mixed filling in the pan.

5. Bake for 20-22 minutes.

6. Let cool and cut into bars.

7. Store in the refrigerator for up to two weeks.

Thanks for this yummy recipe Brandi! You can find this recipe and others at the: HelpClubforMoms.com