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Practical Tips for Parents to Foster Curiosity and Learning

Guest Post from Janice Russell

Instilling a genuine love for learning in children is a gift that keeps on giving. As parents, the role you play in shaping your child’s educational journey is profound. By fostering an environment that encourages exploration and critical thinking, you can help your child develop a passion for knowledge that transcends the classroom. This involves not just providing resources, but also modeling a commitment to learning in your own life. The journey of education is not a sprint but a marathon, and your involvement can make all the difference in how your child perceives and values learning.

Inspiring Lifelong Learning by Returning to School

To instill a love of learning in your children, one of the most effective methods is to lead by example. Choosing to further your education demonstrates that learning is a lifelong journey, fostering personal growth while opening doors to new career opportunities. For example, pursuing professional certifications in fields like IT, project management, or teaching can expand your skill set and make you more competitive in your industry. Enrolling in online courses or workshops to master a new language, learn coding, or explore creative fields like photography or graphic design can also enrich your personal and professional life. Whether you’re earning a master’s degree in nursing to enter advanced practice roles, obtaining financial planning credentials to better serve clients, or simply taking classes to develop a hobby into a side business, your dedication to continuous learning not only advances your career but also inspires your children. It shows them the value of perseverance, adaptability, and self-improvement.

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Creating a Study Space at Home

Creating a dedicated study area at home can boost your child’s enthusiasm for learning, even if space is limited. Consider setting up a small, defined area in a quiet corner of the living room, kitchen, or bedroom. Use portable tools like a lap desk, noise-canceling headphones, or a small caddy for supplies to keep the space organized and flexible. Positioning the area near a window for natural light can improve mood and reduce eye strain, making the space more inviting. With a little creativity, you can make any area work, showing your child that learning is always a priority.

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Encouraging Learning Through Play

Incorporating educational toys into your child’s playtime can significantly enhance their cognitive development while keeping learning fun and engaging. Toys such as puzzles, building blocks, or STEM kits encourage problem-solving and critical thinking by challenging children to find solutions and think creatively. These activities promote logical reasoning, spatial awareness, and strategic planning—skills that lay the foundation for future success. By blending play with learning, educational toys not only nurture curiosity and perseverance but also help children build confidence as they overcome challenges and explore new ideas.

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Click here to read Kathryn’s post on the value of PLAY.

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Maintaining a Nurturing Home

Maintaining a nurturing home for your child is crucial in fostering their love for learning. By creating a calm home, you help them manage emotions and focus better, which reduces stress and enhances concentration. This approach supports a positive learning atmosphere and encourages personal growth by teaching self-regulation skills. Implementing a consistent daily routine within this space can further boost your child’s sense of security and understanding of expectations, leading to improved behavior and engagement. 

For more on this, read Kathryn’s post entitled: Don’t just survive motherhood, Thrive in Motherhood.

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Asking Open-Ended Questions

To nurture your child’s innate curiosity, consider the power of asking open-ended questions. For example, instead of asking, “Did you like the book?” try asking, “What did you find most interesting about the story?” Or, instead of “Did you have fun at school today?” ask, “What was the most exciting or challenging part of your day?” These questions invite children to explore and articulate their thoughts freely. This enhances problem-solving skills and boosts confidence in expressing ideas. By engaging in such dialogues, you help your child become more open-minded, enabling them to view the world from different angles and continuously learn. Engaging in these thoughtful conversations strengthens your bond and creates opportunities for meaningful growth.

Your efforts to cultivate a love of learning in your children can have a lasting impact on their lives. By embracing strategies that encourage curiosity and critical thinking, you lay the groundwork for a future filled with exploration and discovery. Whether through setting a personal example, creating conducive learning environments, or asking the right kinds of questions, your role is pivotal in shaping a lifelong learner. The journey of education is ongoing, and your involvement can inspire a passion for knowledge that endures.

Thanks for reading the guest post by Janice!

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0 In 2024/ Christmas/ Inspiration/ Joy/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip/ Raising boys

Finding Peace & Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season

🎄 Finding Peace and Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season🎄

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The holidays are meant to be the happiest time of the year, but for many, they can feel like the most stressful time of the year. Extra to-dos, packed schedules, and high expectations can leave us overwhelmed and far from the peace we hope to experience.

We decorate our homes with pillows and ornaments that say “Love,” “Joy,” and “Peace,” yet that is NOT what we are feeling. Why? Because in the crazy, we forget all self-care. We skimp on sleep, skip exercise, and don’t drink enough water—all while trying to “do it all.”

But what if this year could be different?

Crystal Paine from Money Saving Mom suggests a simple approach: list all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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List all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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At our house, we’ve made similar adjustments. When my kids were little, we put up a tiny tree on a table to make decorating manageable. I rarely bake Christmas cookies because I know I’ll just eat them all. And we don’t overdo gifts.

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Little George and Clark
3 year old George and 1 year old Clark

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Instead, we focus on simple traditions like:

  • Decorating the tree and sharing stories about our favorite ornaments
  • Driving around to see Christmas lights
  • Watching Christmas movies
  • Reading Christmas stories (and THE Christmas story)
  • Listening to Christmas music

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Hanging new ornaments they received for Christmas

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These are the moments our kids remember—not the perfectly decorated house or an endless stack of gifts. What they really want is a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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What our kids want is a a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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When you feel stress creeping in, turn to Jesus. He’s your strength and peace. Time with Him isn’t just another thing to add to your list; it’s the thing that makes everything else better. He can calm your heart, help you prioritize, and multiply your time in ways you never imagined.

The peace, love, and joy we see on those Christmas decorations aren’t just words—they’re promises. Take a moment to stop, breathe, and ask Jesus to fill your heart. Let His love guide your season and remind you of what truly matters.

This year, may you embrace a holiday filled with peace, love, and joy—the kind that comes not from doing more but from being present in the moments that count.

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My Challenge for YOU:

As you prepare for this holiday season, ask yourself: What is one thing I can let go of to create more peace in my home?

Let it go, and replace it with something that brings true joy—whether it’s quiet time with Jesus, a relaxed evening with family, or simply resting.

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0 In 2024/ Inspiration/ Joy/ Parent Tip

The ABCs of Gratitude

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As the new school year begins, it’s the perfect time to help kids develop a positive mindset that will carry them through the year ahead. One fun and simple way to do this is by practicing mindfulness and gratitude together. These practices can help kids feel more grounded, calm, and ready to tackle whatever comes their way.

The ABCs of Gratitude—an activity designed to help kids focus on the good things in their lives. It’s an easy, creative exercise that encourages them to think about what they’re thankful for, one letter at a time.

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How to do the ABCs of Gratitude:

  1. Gather Supplies: Grab some paper, colorful markers or crayons, and find a comfortable spot to sit together.
  2. Write the Alphabet: Write the alphabet on a sheet of paper. Then, work together (or have your child work independently) and think of things you are grateful for that starts with each letter. Encourage your child to think about their school, friends, family, or favorite activities.
  3. Reflect and Share: As you go through each letter, ask your child why they’re grateful for that particular thing. This helps them connect more deeply with their feelings of gratitude. It’s also a great opportunity to share your own thoughts!
  4. Decorate the List: Let your child decorate their ABCs of Gratitude list with drawings, stickers, or doodles. This makes the activity even more fun and gives them a keepsake to look back on during the school year. 
  5. Make this a tradition: Create a new list at the beginning of each school year to see how your child grows and develops in their writing and gratitude.

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Here’s an example to get you started:

  • A: Art class
  • B: Best friends
  • C: Class pets
  • D: Dinner with family
  • E: Early mornings with mom

And so on…

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This activity is a wonderful way to focus on the GOOD in your life. It encourages you to slow down, appreciate the little things, and find joy in the present moment.

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Why This Activity Matters:

As kids head back to school, they can feel a mix of emotions—excitement, nervousness, or even a little anxiety. Practicing gratitude helps them focus on the positive aspects of their school experience and builds resilience. It’s a wonderful way to start the school year on a positive note, appreciating the little things that make life special.

This activity can also be a great conversation starter at the dinner table or a calming bedtime ritual. By regularly practicing the ABCs of Gratitude, kids can develop a habit of mindfulness that will serve them well throughout the school year.

The ABCs of Gratitude is a simple yet powerful way to set a positive tone for the year ahead!

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Click here for the Thanksgiving version of the ABCs.

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Click here for FIVE tips to Start the School Year Strong!

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0 In 2024/ Faith/ Inspiration/ Motherhood/ My Journey/ Parent Tip

Meditation: An antidote for anxiety!

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With so much happening in the world, it’s easy to get caught up in anxiety. We may worry about our health, our future, our leaders, our families … or if we remembered to lock the front door this morning (spoiler: you probably did). However, there’s a tool that can help alleviate these worries: meditation.

When you think of that word, what comes to mind? Monks in robes chanting “Om” in a temple? While that’s one image, did you know that Scripture also encourages meditation?

The definition of meditation is simply to think about something over and over. Guess what? Worrying is also thinking about something over and over! So, if you can worry, you can meditate. It’s like turning a negative superpower into a positive one. It’s thinking about something that brings life vs. something that takes life.

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Scientific research has proven that meditation done regularly (both morning and night) has a multitude of benefits. Guess what? Scripture tells us the same thing. Joshua 1:9 says, “meditate on the Word day and night.” Science and Scripture are basically BFFs.

The Bible also says that those who meditate day and night are like trees planted by the water, producing fruit, with leaves that don’t wither—whatever they do prospers (Psalm 1). Clearly, we should all aspire to be more like well-watered trees.

Studies from Harvard Medical School, Yale, and other prestigious institutions have documented the benefits of regular meditation:

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Benefits of Meditation:

  • Lowered Blood Pressure: Meditation can lower blood pressure so effectively that 16% of patients were able to stop their medication altogether. (Just imagine the savings on pharmacy bills!)
  • Better Sleep: People with insomnia who meditated 15-20 minutes twice daily for two months reported improved sleep, with most reducing or eliminating their need for sleeping pills. Hello, sweet dreams!
  • Pain Reduction: Individuals with chronic pain saw a 42% reduction in doctor visits, and open-heart surgery patients experienced fewer post-op complications. Apparently, pain gets bored and leaves when we meditate.
  • Increased Brain Power: Meditation slows brain deterioration. So if you want to keep your brain sharp, keep meditating.
  • Reduced Anxiety and Anger: During meditation, the part of the brain responsible for fight or flight takes a nap, while the part responsible for peace, compassion, and happiness gets a wake-up call.
  • Decreased Depression: Meditation helps alleviate depression. Who knew sitting quietly could pack such a punch?
  • Boosted Self-Esteem, Concentration, and Relaxation: Meditation is like a multi-vitamin for your mind and soul.

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Often, when I’m praying, I’m on the go—asking, talking, and rushed. This research challenged me to add another dimension to my prayers. One that Scripture encourages: “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).

I’ve started setting a timer on my phone for just one minute (a baby step!). I sit in silence and breathe. I listen instead of speak. As a Christ follower, when I meditate, I think of God, His Word, and His benefits. This increases my faith, strength, and peace.

Other words you could meditate on include:

  • Peace
  • Love
  • Strength
  • Wisdom
  • Health

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Just get quiet, allow yourself to breathe deeply, and think about the Word over and over. It’s fascinating that worry and meditation are basically the same thing (thinking of something over and over), but with very different outcomes.

Worry increases anxiety. Meditation, on the other hand, has been scientifically proven to reduce anxiety. Meditation is so simple, yet has powerful benefits. So, in these turbulent times, when your mind starts to worry… STOP and MEDITATE!

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Book Recommedations:

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Additional Meditation Practices:

  • Sit outside and listen. Find at least ten DIFFERENT noises before you move on.
  • Close your eyes and imagine God’s arms wrapped around you. Rest in God’s love, be present to him, slow down to let Jesus set the pace and agenda of our day.
  • Ask God a question and listen. Here’s a few ideas of what to ask: Is there anything you want to say to me today? Is there anything you want me to do today? Is there anyone you want me to bless today? What would be pleasing to you today, Father? What lies am I believing? What is the truth you want to replace that lie with?
  • List 15 things you are grateful for.
  • Slowly read a passage of Scripture and reflect.
  • Take a quiet walk without your phone.
  • Breathe in and out. BREATHE OUT negativity, stress, anxiety. BREATHE IN peace, love, and strength.

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A Few Verses to Start your Day (Morning Meditation):

Here are three of my favorite verses to meditate on in the morning and speak before getting out of bed:

1. This is the Day that the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

2. May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight. Psalm 19:14

3. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

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A Few Verses to End your Day (Evening Mediation):

Here are a few verses I say to myself or with my kids before bed:

1. God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

2. In peace, I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety. Psalm 4:8

3. May the peace that passes all understanding guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

Click here for a beautiful evening meditation for a good night’s sleep.

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0 In 2024/ Family/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip

Family Tip #5 – Don’t Compare Yourself with Others

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Today’s Family Tip: Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

God has placed unique gifts and talents inside  you that the world needs. Don’t try to be like someone else, become the best version of YOU!

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Suggestions for how parents can help their children not to compare themselves with others:

  1. Encourage your children to focus on their own progress and accomplishments to develop a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence. Acknowledge and celebrate the progress you see in them.
  2. Every child is unique with their own set of strengths, gifts and abilities. Ask God to give you insight into how He’s made them, and share what you learn with your children.  This will help them recognize and appreciate their own unique qualities.
  3. Model for your children how to have appreciation for others’ successes rather than feelings of resentment.
  4. Focus less on external markers of success (grades and achievements) and more on personal effort and growth.
  5. Help your children set personal goals and strive for self-improvement. This fosters a growth mindset where they see challenges as opportunities for growth rather than threats to their self-worth.

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The world needs you to be who God created you to be!

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Click these links for more family tips:

Family Tip #1 – Model Gratitude

Family Tip #2 – Play!

Family Tip #3 – Smile!

Family Tip #4 – Teach Your Children how to Introduce Themselves

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Here’s a post I wrote on COMPARISON in Motherhood.

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Family Tip #4: Teach Your Kids How to Introduce Themselves

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Helping your children develop the valuable skill of introducing themselves, will benefit them for the rest of their lives. Most kids do not instinctively know how to greet adults (beyond “Hi!”) so we can model and instruct them on how to do this with politeness and confidence.

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This simple skill has so many benefits. It makes a great first impression, boosts their confidence, opens doors for them and makes others feel respected and welcome!

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This skill is taught with 6 simple steps:

  1. Stand up straight
  2. Make eye contact
  3. Smile
  4. Give a firm handshake
  5. State your full name
  6. End with “Nice to meet you.”

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I recommend you practice this at home, and then review it right before meeting new people. Make it a fun! Compliment your kids when they introduce themselves in this manner, even if it’s not ‘perfect’ – acknowledge effort and improvement.

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Find more tips by clicking on the links below:

Family Tip #1 – PLAY

Family Tip #2 – MODEL GRATITUDE

Family Tip #3 – SMILE

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