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0 In 2024/ Christmas/ Inspiration/ Joy/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip/ Raising boys

Finding Peace & Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season

🎄 Finding Peace and Joy in the Chaos of the Christmas Season🎄

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The holidays are meant to be the happiest time of the year, but for many, they can feel like the most stressful time of the year. Extra to-dos, packed schedules, and high expectations can leave us overwhelmed and far from the peace we hope to experience.

We decorate our homes with pillows and ornaments that say “Love,” “Joy,” and “Peace,” yet that is NOT what we are feeling. Why? Because in the crazy, we forget all self-care. We skimp on sleep, skip exercise, and don’t drink enough water—all while trying to “do it all.”

But what if this year could be different?

Crystal Paine from Money Saving Mom suggests a simple approach: list all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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List all the holiday traditions and activities you think need to happen, then let each child choose just one. Focus on those, and let the rest go.

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At our house, we’ve made similar adjustments. When my kids were little, we put up a tiny tree on a table to make decorating manageable. I rarely bake Christmas cookies because I know I’ll just eat them all. And we don’t overdo gifts.

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Little George and Clark
3 year old George and 1 year old Clark

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Instead, we focus on simple traditions like:

  • Decorating the tree and sharing stories about our favorite ornaments
  • Driving around to see Christmas lights
  • Watching Christmas movies
  • Reading Christmas stories (and THE Christmas story)
  • Listening to Christmas music

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Hanging new ornaments they received for Christmas

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These are the moments our kids remember—not the perfectly decorated house or an endless stack of gifts. What they really want is a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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What our kids want is a a peaceful, present mom who enjoys the season with them.

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When you feel stress creeping in, turn to Jesus. He’s your strength and peace. Time with Him isn’t just another thing to add to your list; it’s the thing that makes everything else better. He can calm your heart, help you prioritize, and multiply your time in ways you never imagined.

The peace, love, and joy we see on those Christmas decorations aren’t just words—they’re promises. Take a moment to stop, breathe, and ask Jesus to fill your heart. Let His love guide your season and remind you of what truly matters.

This year, may you embrace a holiday filled with peace, love, and joy—the kind that comes not from doing more but from being present in the moments that count.

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My Challenge for YOU:

As you prepare for this holiday season, ask yourself: What is one thing I can let go of to create more peace in my home?

Let it go, and replace it with something that brings true joy—whether it’s quiet time with Jesus, a relaxed evening with family, or simply resting.

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0 In 2024/ Christmas/ Motherhood/ Raising boys

Best (Christmas) Gifts for Teen Boys

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In just a few days I will have THREE teen-age boys in my house!

Finding the perfect gift for a teen boy can feel like cracking a secret code. With so many options out there, it’s tough to know what will really hit the mark. Whether you’re shopping for a sports enthusiast, tech lover, budding entrepreneur, or someone who’s impossible to shop for, this guide has you covered. These gift ideas are not only practical but are sure to bring a smile to even the most hard-to-please teen. Let’s dive into the best gifts for teen boys that they’ll actually love!

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1. Hoodie

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The #1 thing I see teens wear every day is a hoodie. The top picks? Nike or their favorite sports team.

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2. Joggers

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Along with the hoodie, this is what most teen boys are wearing.

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3. Airpods

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Most teens need earphones or earbuds for school. Having AirPods is something special.

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4. Sports Jersey

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Find out their favorite team and/or player, and most teen boys would love a jersey.

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5. Socks

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I’m not sure where the socks go, but it seems my boys are always in need of them. Throughout the year, most of their socks come from Target. However, at Christmas they get some upgraded socks. Nike Elite are their favorites.

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6. Fast Food Gift Cards

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Teenage boys can EAT! Gift cards to their favorite restaurants are a huge hit. Taco Bell, any hamburger place, Chick-fil-a, Chipotle and Subway are some favorites.

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7. Personalized Bracelet

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This is my teenage son’s favorite thing to wear. A customized bracelet with a word of your choice. His word is “strength.” He also has “courage” and “faith.” Choose a word that describes your teen, or a message they need to hear, and this may become their favorite item.

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8. New Ball

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The #1 most played with gift for my boys from day 1, has always been ANY type of ball. If your child plays a sport, perhaps this is the time to get them an upgraded ball.

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9. An experience

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My teens love Top Golf!

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  • Movie tickets
  • TopGolf
  • WhirleyBall
  • Escape Room – Mall of America has the BEST escape rooms!

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10. Sports Equipment

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Does your child have a sport or activity that they enjoy – perhaps a new golf club, sport bag, etc.

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11. Baseball Cap

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In my area, teen boys love Waggle Hats. Another favorite is a baseball hat from their favorite team or city.

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12. Shoes

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Teens grow FAST! This is the time of year to get them a new pair of running shoes, cleats, crocs, birks or any shoe of their choice.

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13. A Book

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The #1 book I recommend for teen boys: Chop Wood, Carry Water. Perhaps you could offer a teen some $ if they read and give you a report on what they learned?

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14. Game

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Many teens are outgrowing board games, but we still have family game night at our house. The prefer games that make them laugh or require strategy.

Here are a few suggestions:

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Click here to see our top ten family board games.

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15. Shirt

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Again, teens are GROWING and usually in need of more clothes. Now is the time to buy them a shirt from their favorite team, and Nike shirts are always a hit as well.

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16. Bike

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If your teen has outgrown their bike, this is a good time to buy them a new one. You can also find a used one on Marketplace.

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17. Basketball Hoop

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Whether your kids love basketball or not, this is a gift that could provide hours of entertainment and draw the neighbor kids to your driveway or backyard!

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18. Customizable Water Bottle

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Am I the only one with a teen who can’t keep track of his water bottle? Get one with their NAME on it!

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19. Cologne

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Is your teen asking for cologne but not sure what he’d like or what smells good? Get him a sample pack.

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20. Gaming System

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21. Necklace/Chain

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22. Slippers

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23. Facewash/Acne Face Stickers

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24. Spikeball

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25. Hookie Game

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I want to acknowledge that these items can add up FAST! Christmas for teens can be SPENDY, but it doesn’t have to be. Work within YOUR budget. Let your teens know where you are and what they can expect this year. You can also buy many items second-hand to save money.

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Tips on saving:

  • Check marketplace for hand-me-downs.
  • Buy ONE item for Christmas.
  • Share this list with grandparents or someone interested in buying a gift for your teen.

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Do you have something to add? Leave a comment!

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0 In 2024/ Faith/ Inspiration/ Motherhood/ My Journey/ Parent Tip

Meditation: An antidote for anxiety!

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With so much happening in the world, it’s easy to get caught up in anxiety. We may worry about our health, our future, our leaders, our families … or if we remembered to lock the front door this morning (spoiler: you probably did). However, there’s a tool that can help alleviate these worries: meditation.

When you think of that word, what comes to mind? Monks in robes chanting “Om” in a temple? While that’s one image, did you know that Scripture also encourages meditation?

The definition of meditation is simply to think about something over and over. Guess what? Worrying is also thinking about something over and over! So, if you can worry, you can meditate. It’s like turning a negative superpower into a positive one. It’s thinking about something that brings life vs. something that takes life.

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Scientific research has proven that meditation done regularly (both morning and night) has a multitude of benefits. Guess what? Scripture tells us the same thing. Joshua 1:9 says, “meditate on the Word day and night.” Science and Scripture are basically BFFs.

The Bible also says that those who meditate day and night are like trees planted by the water, producing fruit, with leaves that don’t wither—whatever they do prospers (Psalm 1). Clearly, we should all aspire to be more like well-watered trees.

Studies from Harvard Medical School, Yale, and other prestigious institutions have documented the benefits of regular meditation:

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Benefits of Meditation:

  • Lowered Blood Pressure: Meditation can lower blood pressure so effectively that 16% of patients were able to stop their medication altogether. (Just imagine the savings on pharmacy bills!)
  • Better Sleep: People with insomnia who meditated 15-20 minutes twice daily for two months reported improved sleep, with most reducing or eliminating their need for sleeping pills. Hello, sweet dreams!
  • Pain Reduction: Individuals with chronic pain saw a 42% reduction in doctor visits, and open-heart surgery patients experienced fewer post-op complications. Apparently, pain gets bored and leaves when we meditate.
  • Increased Brain Power: Meditation slows brain deterioration. So if you want to keep your brain sharp, keep meditating.
  • Reduced Anxiety and Anger: During meditation, the part of the brain responsible for fight or flight takes a nap, while the part responsible for peace, compassion, and happiness gets a wake-up call.
  • Decreased Depression: Meditation helps alleviate depression. Who knew sitting quietly could pack such a punch?
  • Boosted Self-Esteem, Concentration, and Relaxation: Meditation is like a multi-vitamin for your mind and soul.

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Often, when I’m praying, I’m on the go—asking, talking, and rushed. This research challenged me to add another dimension to my prayers. One that Scripture encourages: “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).

I’ve started setting a timer on my phone for just one minute (a baby step!). I sit in silence and breathe. I listen instead of speak. As a Christ follower, when I meditate, I think of God, His Word, and His benefits. This increases my faith, strength, and peace.

Other words you could meditate on include:

  • Peace
  • Love
  • Strength
  • Wisdom
  • Health

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Just get quiet, allow yourself to breathe deeply, and think about the Word over and over. It’s fascinating that worry and meditation are basically the same thing (thinking of something over and over), but with very different outcomes.

Worry increases anxiety. Meditation, on the other hand, has been scientifically proven to reduce anxiety. Meditation is so simple, yet has powerful benefits. So, in these turbulent times, when your mind starts to worry… STOP and MEDITATE!

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Book Recommedations:

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Additional Meditation Practices:

  • Sit outside and listen. Find at least ten DIFFERENT noises before you move on.
  • Close your eyes and imagine God’s arms wrapped around you. Rest in God’s love, be present to him, slow down to let Jesus set the pace and agenda of our day.
  • Ask God a question and listen. Here’s a few ideas of what to ask: Is there anything you want to say to me today? Is there anything you want me to do today? Is there anyone you want me to bless today? What would be pleasing to you today, Father? What lies am I believing? What is the truth you want to replace that lie with?
  • List 15 things you are grateful for.
  • Slowly read a passage of Scripture and reflect.
  • Take a quiet walk without your phone.
  • Breathe in and out. BREATHE OUT negativity, stress, anxiety. BREATHE IN peace, love, and strength.

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A Few Verses to Start your Day (Morning Meditation):

Here are three of my favorite verses to meditate on in the morning and speak before getting out of bed:

1. This is the Day that the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

2. May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight. Psalm 19:14

3. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

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A Few Verses to End your Day (Evening Mediation):

Here are a few verses I say to myself or with my kids before bed:

1. God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

2. In peace, I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety. Psalm 4:8

3. May the peace that passes all understanding guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

Click here for a beautiful evening meditation for a good night’s sleep.

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0 In 2024/ Family/ Finding our place/ Motherhood/ Moving

Stress-Free Strategies for a Family Move

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To all the incredible moms out there who are gearing up for a move, I understand the mix of excitement and stress that comes with this big change.

Here are some tips to help you navigate this transition smoothly.

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Planning and Preparation

  1. Create a Moving Timeline: Start planning early. Make a checklist of tasks to complete before moving day.
  2. Declutter Before Packing: Declutter your home. Donate or sell items you no longer need. Less stuff means less to pack and unpack!
  3. Host a garage sale to purge your home and earn extra cash for the move. (Click here for 6 tips for a successful garage sale).
  4. Shop for a Moving Company: Call at least 3 companies. When you choose a company, ask if it’s their best price. The company I went with took off the extra weekend fees.
  5. Pack Strategically:
    • Collect lots of boxes and paper (You can often find them for free on Facebook marketplace)
    • Pack anything that you want to keep but won’t need for the season. Books, art on the walls, etc.
    • Pack room by room and label boxes clearly.
    • Keep essentials like medications, toiletries, and a few kitchen items handy for the first few days in your new home.
    • Set up utilities in your new location – gas, water, electric, internet, trash, insurance. I’m listing these because with 1 million things to do, I forgot to set up electric at my new house and freaked out when the power went out 24 hours after moving in. Thankfully, I quickly figured out who to call and got it set up.
  6. Get appointments done: Once you move, it will take time to find a new dentist and doctor, so get check ups and doctor’s appointments done before moving. Get vaccination records and a sports physicals for kids.

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Involving Your Kids:

  1. Communicate with Kids: Involve your children in the moving process. Explain what to expect and reassure them about the upcoming changes.
  2. Communicate with the Schools: Enroll your children in their new schools, and let their current school know you are moving. If possible, take a tour of the new school.
  3. Pack a Suitcase Each Child: Pack a suitcase of your child’s clothes and a few of their favorite things. Before moving day, put these in your car so the movers don’t load them.
  4. Explore the New Neighborhood: If possible, take your kids to explore the new neighborhood before moving day to get them excited about the new surroundings.
  5. Sign them up for Sports or Clubs: If possible, get them involved in a sport or a club right away so they can begin to build friendships with kids in their new town.
  6. Create a Bucket List: Do a little research about your new area to find fun things to do with your family. Create a list of fun things to do after the move. (Click here for a Minnesota List or here for a Colorado list.)

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Managing Stress:

  1. Accept Help! If someone mentions helping with the move, SAY YES and pick a day! I’m forever grateful for the handful of family and friends that jumped in to help when I moved. Delegating and having help is a huge stress reliever.
  2. Stay Positive: Focus on the exciting aspects of your new home and the fresh opportunities it will bring for you and your family. It’s not taking you out of your comfort zone, it’s EXPANDING your comfort zone.

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On Moving Day:

  1. Set Up a Safe Space for Kids: If you have young children or pets, arrange for childcare/pet sitter on moving day, or designate a safe area away from the chaos.
  2. Keep Important Documents/Boxes Handy: Keep important documents, medications, and valuables with you during the move. Perhaps you load these in your car before the movers come so they do not get loaded on the truck.
  3. Plan ahead for food. Prep a cooler with drinks, snacks and sandwiches available for your family and those helping with the move.

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After the Move:

  1. Unpack Strategically: Unpack essentials first, like bedding and kitchen supplies. Take your time settling in. It will eventually get done so it’s OKAY to take breaks to eat, rest and play.
  2. Get rid of boxes: List your boxes and packing paper on Facebook marketplace for FREE and everything will be picked up within 24 hours.
  3. Connect with the Community: Get to know your new neighbors and explore local resources like parks, schools, and community centers.
  4. Give Yourself Grace: Adjusting to a new home takes time. It may not feel like ‘home’ for 6-12 months. Be patient with yourself and your family as you settle into your new area and routine.
  5. Read this post: 8 Ways To Love Where you Live

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Remember, you’re doing an amazing job managing this transition for your family. Embrace this new chapter with optimism and know that soon you’ll be making beautiful memories in your new home. You’ve got this!

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Click to read: 24 family-friendly places to explore around the Twin Cities

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0 In 2024/ Family/ Motherhood/ Parent Tip

Family Tip #5 – Don’t Compare Yourself with Others

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Today’s Family Tip: Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

God has placed unique gifts and talents inside  you that the world needs. Don’t try to be like someone else, become the best version of YOU!

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Suggestions for how parents can help their children not to compare themselves with others:

  1. Encourage your children to focus on their own progress and accomplishments to develop a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence. Acknowledge and celebrate the progress you see in them.
  2. Every child is unique with their own set of strengths, gifts and abilities. Ask God to give you insight into how He’s made them, and share what you learn with your children.  This will help them recognize and appreciate their own unique qualities.
  3. Model for your children how to have appreciation for others’ successes rather than feelings of resentment.
  4. Focus less on external markers of success (grades and achievements) and more on personal effort and growth.
  5. Help your children set personal goals and strive for self-improvement. This fosters a growth mindset where they see challenges as opportunities for growth rather than threats to their self-worth.

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The world needs you to be who God created you to be!

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Click these links for more family tips:

Family Tip #1 – Model Gratitude

Family Tip #2 – Play!

Family Tip #3 – Smile!

Family Tip #4 – Teach Your Children how to Introduce Themselves

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Here’s a post I wrote on COMPARISON in Motherhood.

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0 In 2023/ Family/ Motherhood

Thanksgiving Activity: ABCs of Gratitude

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Help your family remember that Thanksgiving is more than turkey and pumpkin pie with this fun and rewarding activity.

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If your children need a little motivation to make a gratitude list – call it a “Turkey Ticket” or “Pie Points” and in order to earn their turkey dinner – or dessert – list the ABCs of gratitude. It would be fun to save these and compare them year after year!

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ABCs of Thanksgiving

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On this Thanksgiving, embrace the beauty in simple moments. Remember that ordinary days have extraordinary blessings. Give thanks for what you have, and for the opportunity to make a difference and share God’s goodness with others.

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Happy Thanksgiving from our family to yours!

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Here are some fun Thanksgiving Game Ideas!

1 In 2023/ Inspiration/ Motherhood/ Raising boys

The Power of Playing with Your Kids

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Are your kids saying “I’m Bored?” 

Are you needing to ‘de-stress’ a little? 

Here’s an idea for you: Take your kids to the backyard and play a GAME together.

It’s a refreshing departure from the ever-encroaching high-tech world of gadgets, which often leaves little room for imagination.

Playing with your kids is an opportunity to move, laugh, and learn as a family. 

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Here’s the good news, it doesn’t have to take all day. Just carving out 10 minutes to play strengthens the bond between parent and child and lowers stress and anxiety for all ages!

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The opposite of play is NOT work. The opposite of play is depression. 

Dr. Stuart Brown

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Playing with your kids lowers your stress level and strengthens the bond with your kids! So, let’s embrace the enchantment of play and reap the joys it can bring to our lives.

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Need game ideas?

  1. TAG!! Good, old-fashioned TAG! When my kids ask me to play TAG, I want to say: “No, I’m too old … too tired.” However, I push that feeling aside, realizing this is an opportunity to connect with my kids and burn some calories! You don’t have to play for HOURS! Usually in 5 to 10 minutes we are worn out from running and laughing so hard! Try it!
  2. Hide and Seek
  3. Kick a ball
  4. Throw a ball into different baskets/buckets
  5. Don’t Eat PeteClick for instructions
  6. Would You Rather?
  7. Other Backyard games
  8. More Backyard Games

What game do play with your kids? Leave me a comment!

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0 In 2023/ Book Review/ Motherhood/ Product Recommendations/ Raising boys

Four of my Favorite Parenting Books

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There are endless parenting books on the market – many good ones, a few really bad (or just plain BORING), and a few GREAT ones! Here are four of my favorites:

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1. Knights in training by Heather Haupt

This book contains practical ideas and inspiration for raising boys who are honorable, courageous and compassionate.

“We need to start training them now to be ready to take the reins of leadership – to live with integrity, to think outside of themselves, and to value the people around them. We need boys who will use their strength for the protection of others rather than to prey on others. With power and strength comes great responsibility.”

Heather Haupt, author of of Knights in Training

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2. Growing grateful kids by Susie Larson

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I consider this a must-read for every Christian parent. It’s filled with page after page of Biblical truth and practical encouragement. 

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We have this one life, this short time on earth to make our mark and to make life count. We have these children in our care for a blink of an eye. NOW is the time to be engaged and fully present. Now is the time to rise up and be the parent who trains and prepares our children to become the individuals they were created to be.

Susie Larson, author of Growing Grateful kids

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God promises to give wisdom if we ask him. We need wisdom because every child is different. The Lord will show you how to parent each of your children in a way that will help him or her to grow to be the person they were created to be.

Susie Larson

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3. The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Raising Self-Reliant Kids by Dr. Wendy Mogul

This book was written by a parent and psychologist. I found it practical, extremely helpful, and even inspiring. I listened to the audiobook and enjoyed it so much that I went online and purchased a hard-copy. Topics include respect, chores, homework, helping your child deal with a ‘bad day,’ and building ‘faith practices’ in your home (though you don’t have to be a person of faith to find IMMENSE value in this book)! I highly recommend it to all parents.

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Unsure how to find grace and security in the complex world we’ve inherited, we try to fill up the spaces in our children’s lives with stuff: birthdays, lessons, rooms full of toys and equipment, tutors and therapists. But material pleasures can’t buy peace of mind, and all the excess leads to more anxiety—parents fear that their children will not be able to sustain this rarefied lifestyle and will fall off the mountain the parents have built for them.

Dr. Wendy Mogul, author of The Blessing of a Skinned Knee

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4. Talking to your kids about God: 30 Conversations Every Christian Parent Must Have by Natasha Crain

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To care for the physical needs of others while ignoring their spiritual needs is like giving a hamburger to a hungry man sitting on train tracks and not telling him a train is coming. The Bible calls Christians to care for both physical and spiritual needs, and ignoring either puts people in serious danger.

Natasha Crain, author of Talking to Your Kids about God

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Natasha Crain discusses the evidence for the existence of God, how science confirms the God of the Bible, how Christianity is different from other religions, and how all these things apply to us and the world around us. An excellent book for Christian parents who want to know how to answer their child’s questions. I recommend it to any Christian parent or parent who may be curious about God.

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Other notable books:

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What would YOU recommend? Leave me a comment!

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0 In 2023/ Family/ Inspiration/ Motherhood

10 Ways to Help Our Kids Be More Grateful

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.Gratitude is a fundamental aspect of emotional intelligence and well-being, and teaching it to children can have long-lasting positive effects on their development and outlook on life.

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When you are grateful, an invisible blanket of peace covers you … it makes you happy, strong and warm.

Om Swami

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Cultivating a heart of gratitude in our children begins when we model what that looks like.

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Here are 10 ways to cultivate GRATITUDE in our children:

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  1. Model It: Children often learn by observing the behavior of adults and caregivers in their lives. If you consistently express gratitude for the things you have and the actions of others, your children are more likely to emulate this behavior.
  2. Talk about It: Verbalize your feelings of gratitude regularly. When you thank others for their kindness or acknowledge the positive aspects of your life, you demonstrate to your children the importance of acknowledging and appreciating the good things.
  3. Teach the Value of Effort: Help children understand that many things they enjoy in life, whether it’s a meal, a clean home, or a loving family, require effort and work. Show them how to appreciate the effort that goes into providing these things.
  4. Encourage Reflection: Encourage your children to reflect on what they’re thankful for. This can be done through simple conversations, a gratitude journal, or asking them about the best part of their day. This practice helps them become more aware of the positive aspects of their lives.
  5. Give Back: Engage in activities that involve giving back to the community or helping those in need. Volunteering as a family can be a powerful way to show children the value of gratitude and compassion for others.
  6. Limit Materialism: In a consumer-driven world, it’s important to teach children that happiness doesn’t come solely from acquiring material possessions. Emphasize experiences, relationships, and non-material aspects of life as sources of fulfillment and gratitude.
  7. Be Patient: Developing a sense of gratitude is a process that takes time. Children may not always express gratitude naturally, so be patient and provide gentle guidance.
  8. Avoid Comparisons: Discourage comparisons with others, as this can lead to envy and entitlement. Instead, focus on individual growth and the unique circumstances that make each person’s life special.
  9. Celebrate Achievements: When your children show gratitude or acts of kindness, celebrate and reinforce these behaviors. Positive reinforcement can motivate them to continue being appreciative and kind.
  10. Correct Missteps: If your child displays ingratitude or entitlement, use these moments as teaching opportunities rather than scolding. Explain why their behavior is not aligned with gratitude and help them understand the impact of their actions on others.

Incorporating these practices into your parenting can help instill a sense of gratitude in your children, which can contribute to their emotional well-being, resilience, and the development of positive relationships throughout their lives. Remember that modeling gratitude isn’t just about teaching a behavior; it’s about nurturing a mindset that can lead to a happier and more fulfilling life.

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Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.

Psalm 107:1

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0 In 2023/ Inspiration/ Joy/ Motherhood

Humorous and Heartwarming Mother’s Day Quotes to Brighten Your Day

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It is very important that children learn from their fathers and mothers how to love one another – not from school, but from you. It is very important that you share with your children the joy of that smile. There will be misunderstandings, every family has its cross, its suffering. Always be there first to forgive with a smile. Be cheerful, be happy.

Mother Teresa

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In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock. 

– Thomas Jefferson

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When raising children, it’s best to spend on them half as much money and twice as much time.

– Dear Abby (Abigail Van Buren)

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 Before I got married I had many theories about bringing up children. Now I have many children and no theories.

John Wilmot

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Mama, where you are weak, He is strong!

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There was. time when we expected nothing of our children but obedience, as opposed to the present, when we expect everything of them but obedience.

– Anatole Broyard

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We spend the first 12 months of our children’s lives teaching them to walk and talk, and the next 12 years telling them to sit down and shut up.

– Phyllis Diller

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Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.

– James Bladwin

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Outings are so much more fun when we can savor them through the children’s eyes.

– Lawn Blackwell

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We cannot always build the future for our youth, but we can build our youth for the future.

– Fanlkin D Rossevelt

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Your children need your presence more than your presents.

– Jesse Jackson

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If you want your children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders.

– Abigail Van Buren

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Even as the cell is the unit of the organic body, so the family is the unity of society.

– Ruth Nanda Anshen

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A good home must be made, not bought.

– Joyce Maynard

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In the name of God, stop a moment, cease your work, and look around you.

– Leo Tolstoy

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What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us, what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.

– Albert Pike

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If you send out good people into the world, you know you’ve done something good.

– Carl Reiner

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“…The Mother is the one supreme asset of the national life. She is more imoprtant, by far, than the successful statesman, or businessman, or artist , or scientist.”

Theodore Roosevelt

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Happy Mother’s Day!

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Want more on motherhood? Check out these posts:

The Terrible, Horrible, No Good Mother’s Day

12 Verses to Break Fear and Build Faith

Empowering Advice For Moms

8 Habits that Lead to a Strong, Healthy Life

Living God-Propelled Vs. Self-Propelled

Raising Children who Bring Love, Peace, and Joy into the World

Finding Joy in the Mess of Motherhood